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hey i'm a guy, and one of my friends got pregnant. the whole school found out and eventually her parents did too. right now shes feeling terrible and her parents flipped out on her. i heard her talking to some of her friends and said she was considering getting an abortion. i asked her about it and she said shes worried and afraid its a bad idea. what should i tell her about it? i mean i don't think she should get one, but how do i help her with what she wants to know? thanks

You cant TELL her what to do, for definate, its all down to her, its her body and her life, you should be there for her and make sure she knows that, maybe get soem imformation for her about abortion, and about young parenthood, they shouldny be pro or against though, just neutral facts, just be there to hold her hand through it all, if she does get an abortion, dont leave her because you think its wrong, its her decision, stay a good friend because she'l still need help whether she has an abortion or not
hope shes ok
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My ex-best friend is trying to move in on my best friends. She's being moody, and since her mother is a witch, (like her, and overprotective) she's "brainwashed" her into just...being that way. I'm getting so tired of it. She's already moody and protective of everything she does. She's not all that pretty, and I'm not saying I'm better than her, but everything about her is ANNOYING. Andd I have to see her every single freakin day at school. What should I do. It's really getting old. I hate her.


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Frustrated >:(

What do you mean by *that way* im a wiccan (witch) and we tend not to be all moody and stuff, so i wouldny blame it on that, if shes over protective then try and tell her, say that your your own person and dont need her hanging over you all the time, why should her being not that prety annoy you? i dont think anyone can really hate anyone when their still in school, just try and block her out if she annoys you that much, if she says something that makes you angry, dont scream and shout just walk away, she'l eventually get the message.
hope i helped
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