well i got this idea from courtney weycamp, but the main reason i made this is because ive been through ALOT of things in my life- and i wanna help other people anything from guys/girls to family i dont care just tell me and i'll try to give you the best advice!
Website: my xanga Location: East Grand Rapids Occupation: student AIM: vballchica0011 Member Since: June 14, 2005 Answers: 135 Last Update: December 5, 2005 Visitors: 7452
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I AM UGLY AS SIN!!! what should i do.. i really need your help pleaseee help me.. idk what to do with my life!! no one likesme the world is evil to me and i cry myself to sleep every night.!!!! (link)
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uhh have bettter self esteem im sure your beautiful:)
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hi bae i heard and i am sorry. what can i do for you? let me know. i love you with all my heart (link)
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hey! umm thanks but im not sure what your talking abouttt nothing really has happened lately
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i think ur advice thing is turning into a joke. no one is sending anything serious anymore or worth while reading. sorry, like i dont mean this in a mean way, but to everyone who is reading this- write real things that u want advice on! thanks (link)
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haha yeah umm i know i leave it up because once in a while i get real advice and yeahh so LEAVE REAL ADVICE!! haha
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oh my gosh wow...i dont no who sent you the last ones i sent you to im the one that you said sly too and im the one taht you said ahah i dont no who this is....this is the third one im writing too...i mit ehave brwno hair.but wow ppl are soo weird they wanna be jusss likee meee and they keep copying me okay my name is lost in the desert and im gunna keep adding to it when i am done leaving a letter..but here;s a kinda hint i saw you like twices today and talked to you once
lost in the desert (link)
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haha i have NO IDEA?! i think this is a girl hmmm
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waiitt....you dont no whooo i ammm!! ughhh....by the way im not the same person as the one below me...but ill ttyl tomaro...ill give you hints wen im talking to you seeing if you can catch on heheheh aww bailey your soo cute (link)
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haha sly..
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i feel like my best friend doesn't really want to be friends with me anymore or something because she never tells me anything anymore! we always used to tell each other everything, and now every time i find something out she just says "well i thought you'd be mad if i told you" or "i thought you wouldn't care" or claims she forgot to tell me. it's really bothering me because i want us to stay best friends and tell each other stuff, but it doesn't seem like she wants to. what should i do?? (link)
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you need to confront her about it, because i was put in that spot like not too long ago and like we are so much closer now, just talk to her and seriously tell her how you feel so she can understand and if she doesnt then you can do better, i hope everyhting works out!:)
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i wanna join myspace but some people in my grade really hate me so like i'm not sure if they're gonna want my info and stuff you know? should i make one? EVERYONE has one in my school (link)
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yeah make one who cares what they think?
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hey bailey its kimmie! u are such a good friend and in yearbook! haha we would always help eachother with stuff and i hope we have classes together next year! i love you bae!
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hey! aww thanks kimmie i love you ur such a sweetheart, hs is gonna be sweeet! xoxox
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when my friends seem to say something or do something not nessisarily good, i seem to tell them, but i feel like im telling then how to run there life. what should i do? because when it happens i dont' want to tell them not to do it but it kinda makes me feel uncomforable...
aka its nothing sexuall (link)
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well if its harming them, as a good friend you should politely tell them and they may or may not accept it, but just know that your doing the right thing:)
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Bae...what happens when you got someone a SWEEET build-a-bear, but you wanna keep it for yourself because it's sooo cute...but you're giving it to your friend with a birthday party that day? HAHA, jk. you're going to love it!
-Anyomous
ps. i wonder if this will ACTUALLY show up unlike my little 5 minute message and my other advice thing that was long... (link)
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HAHA tessa:) i loveee you and im pumped for tonight you cutie patootie!
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My friend (ill call her E ) has an xanga and in her chatterbox it gives your computer a number so whenever you write in it you have the same number...well i was at my friend (ill call her M M) M's house and on her computer she has a seperate number...and i wrote in E's chatterbox and somebody wrote in anonymous something really mean to E from M's computer and E thinks i wrote it..what should i do to fix our friendship?? (link)
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well, okay so xangas are pretty much stupid! haha although i have one! but if shes your real friend, she will trust you and know that you didnt write it...maybe you guys need to learn and have more trust for eachother but let her know you wouldnt do that, and try to gain ehr trust back! hope i helped:)
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Hey bae, well i have this friend and shes doing really bad things with guys that i dont like, and when i hang out with her she makes me look like a slut, like shes making me hang out with guys that i dont wanna hang out with and shes like making me kiss or even makeout with guys that i dont even like, shes like controlling me and i dont like it, but im affraid of how she will react! (link)
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alright..well first of all, it may seem like she controls you, but you can only control yourself. If you dont like the things your doing around her, stop yourself, SOON! If she has a bad rep her rep could rub off on you, and that wouldnt bee good. If you dont like these guys, put your foot down and be like, " i dontr really like the situations you put me in" and if shes your real friend, she should understand!
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bailey-
what do i do if i feel like i want to break away from one of my really good friends..this person is my like best friend but i feel theres just some qualities about them i dont like somtimes they flip out on me for no reason and dont treat me very nice they also take advantage of me for things and i feel like they are using me...i have no idea what to do because im sick of being treated like this! can you help? thanks so much (link)
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hey! ok..i felt like this with a firend of mine, it was really bad, and i kept it inside and i put up with her but you NEED to talk to her and let her know, but do it in a friendly way sit her down and be like, i really feel like your taking advantage of me, but dont accuse her because that just makes the situation worse..and i hope everything really does work out! sorry this is so short but i have to go!!
love bailey
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aww bae this is soo cute haha!! you are so nice and gorgeous and deserve the best in life!! You give such good advice and have helped me alot before with ur advice!! hope ur havin an awesome summer and had a sweet time in mexico!! I LOVE YOU BAILEY!!
>>*Sarah K* (link)
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SARAH you are the sweetest girl ever, im not kidding tghats really sweet...youre gonna go so far in life with your awesome personality and stuff!! haha your cd player is pimp, im in mexico wohooo I LOVE YOU SARAH!
we shall hangout when i get back of course!
love baebae
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hey bae, ok well i like have a lot of friends, but i feel like i'm not like totally like "part of a clique of friends" like i kinda used to be but then they kinda like stopped being my friend so i like left them and went to a new group of friends, but im like still kinda friends with my old group too, but i feel like i can only hang out with my new group of friends if i hang out with the whole group like i cant just hang out with one person just us two. like they have nevr invited me to hang out with just them and i dont know what to do. thanx. (link)
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Hey! thats exactly how i am too, i know how you feel! What i did was i found the people wo were my good friends, new or old, but the ones who meant the most to me and were my true friends. Im not sure if youre in our grade, but it tends to be sort of clicky, all grades are! If youre hanging out with people who you cant be yourself, then thats the people you should hang out with, and thats what i did, im not saying you cant hang out with the tgroup of new people, but stick with your most truest friends...!
PS im in mexico! wahoo!!
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ok, so i am going out with this guy and i want to break up with him but i just cant...how should i ? (link)
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well, i have a friend not kidding who is in the same position! If you dont like him...you need to break up with him. It will hurt more for him to be lead on by a fake relationship than for you to call it quits. I know it will be hard, but jsut tell him "I'm sorry, but this isnt right", and sit down and talk to him, dont do it on the phone or online- then he would be just more confused...but good luck!:)
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Hi bailey. what do you do if your friend bailey is so gorgeous and funny and pretty and i can't believe its summer. YAYYYY. oh, and what if the pistons lose? i think i will go into great depression. what shall i do? lol. i love you bailey. (link)
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AWW haha well THANK YOU! if the pistons lose...geeze, that would SUCK! they whole world would go into depression...so i'll go into depression wiht you, whoever you are, i love you as well:)
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if you im a chick and you say hey and they say hi, doesnt that mean that they dont like you very much aka theyre just like hi you know?? (link)
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hmm good question. well it depends who the girl is first of all, because she might jsut be going through PMS if you know what i mean! or she just simply might not wanna talk to you at the time, but you should ask her if shes okay or something! hah peter...
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