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Q: Mkay .. here goes .. me and this guy have been datin almost 7 months .. and i reallie love him !! But i have a reallie big trust issue .. i dont know how to trust him !! And he`s startin to think maybe we should "take a break" !! But if we do i know that will be it for us .. i cant loose him !! We have been datin for 7 months but best friends for 3 years .. why throw all of it away ?? And yea we could still be friends but i dont like him as friend .. i love him as a boyfriend !! What do i do ??
People make mistakes, That won`t change the fact that you can`t fully trust him. But give him space, Show him that no matter what you're there for him. A guy needs that kind of security. 3 years is too long of a time for a friendship to end over something so stupid and a relationship that went on for 7 months is too much just to call off just like that. Maybe taking a break may be a good idea, Not a long one and yall should still talk while having it, but show him that no one else loves him like you do or knows him as well as you do. He'll come back I promise girl. Just have faith. If anything yall just have a long talk about why you don`t trust him. Maybe he can do something to gain your trust back. If you love him and want it to work out as much as you say, you'll give him a chance. Good luck girl and I'd love to hear how it goes and if I helped!

Q: Ok, me and this guy were really close friends. Then we started having sex and it totally ruined our friendship. Alot of drama went down and we started talkin bad about each other behind e/os backs, it was really bad. Well its been a few months and I been thinking about him alot. I thought i hated him for the stuff he put me thru, maybe i did. But now i miss our friendship very much. He was a great friend n i miss that Lots, but im scared to talk to him.. i dont know what i would say.. would i just be like hey i know we hate eachother or whatever but can we be friends but i also dont want to be like hey ive missed you in my life can we just be friends.. coz that sounds corny.. lol its really tuff but i really do miss him in my life.. K-a-y*luh HeLLPP!!! (( and kayluh if u know whos writing this to you.. YOU BETTER NOT SAY A WORD 2NE1!!)) love you lol
Hey, I know who this is. lol Aw girl its so obvious but you're like a "sister" to me so thats the only reason I can tell. Talk to him about it.. Not in front of anyone else. Just you and him. It's something about guys. When it's just you & him it stuff gets accomplished. Ya know what I mean? I know this guy, yeah he can be a little ass, but deep down hes a really great guy. Just tell him you wanna start everything over. You just wanna forget the past and show him you really mean it. You didn't do anything wrong. Yall were both in the wrong if anything. So good luck with that girl! ;-) I LOVE U TOO! hehe

Q: ok this gurl is botherin me shes my bffs friend she hates me (KATIE, bffs friend) but my bff always says katie hates me and crap like that it really botherin me!!!!i need help!!!
Tell you're best friend that, thats fine if her friend don't like you but she dont have to remind you all the time and rub it in your face because that's not a good friend thing to do. And if you can try and get along with Katie. Or not exactly along, But just get straight with her. Work out yalls problems. Yall don't have to hang out but it would be much easier all together.

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