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Q: I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?

the same exact thing happened to me a few months ago.. except they kinda hooked eachother up. well she knew that ive liked him forever.. and like they just started talking and w.e and it was just then that she started liking him.. and she went out with him too and shes like "oh a guy could NEVER ruin our relationship" yeah thats what they all say.. well that all changed and all this stuff happened and when they broke up.. she came running back to me.. and then they went out again and we werent friends again.. and were not friends now.. she keeps lieing to me when i ask her stuff about her and him and when i find out she lies even more and says she didnt tell anyone.. meanwhile everyone told me the same exact story except her.. so if you wana loose your friendship with this girl.. then tell her off and be like your a horrible friend and shes the one going off her word that a guy would never ruin your relationship.. but if you wana keep the relationship.. then just leave it alone.. bcuz this type of thing can really screw up all your friends.. it happened to me and my friends.. were all not friends with that girl anymore... and shes still going out with him.. but ill tell you this.. i think shes a "freak" bcuz thats just not something for a firend to do to another friend.. just remember "chicks before dicks" thats what a true friend relationship is.. friends do go behind what they say.. and that girl isnt a friend from what your saying.. hope everything works out.. and sorry this is so long lol ..

-->> Danielle

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Im tugging at my hair Im pulling at my clothes
Im trying to keep my cool I know it shows
Im staring at my feet My checks are turning red
Im searching for the words inside my head
Cause Im feeling nervous Trying to be so perfect
Cause I know youre worth it Youre worth it Yeah
If I could say what I want to say I'd say I wanna blow you...
away Be with you every night Am I squeezing you too tight
If I could say what I want to see I want to see you go down On one knee
Marry me today Yes, Im wishing my life away
-with these things i'll never say-

when i think Of yOu my stOmach aches by the sight Of you my bOdy shakes knowin i cOuld never have yOu hurts like hell fOr just One night with you my whole life i wOuld sell

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and m0ments that mean iit all . s0 waiit
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'-Ã??Ã?Â»Ã??Ã?Â» ordiinary m0ment bec0me 'l|[ majiical ]|l'

Be wh0 yOu Are `nd say what yOu
feel beCause those that matter d0n`t
miind andd thOse that miind
d0n`t matter

you know what i want ? . . just once i want to
be someones reason for waking up . someones
reason for going through another day . just one
time i want to be the one being wished* for . the
one who makes a guy say ''i`m so lucky to have
her''* . . to put it simply . i wAnt to mean to
somebody w h a t y o u m e a n t o m e