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Hi, I'm a 13 year old female. My friend Amber and I have been friends for about a year. Yeah, I know not long but were are or were best friends. It all started when she made me extremly mad over not telling me she was going out with my Ex boyfriend. I have no feelings for him what-so-ever. But I felt that since I told her everything and we had agreed that we would tell anything to each other that she should have told me.
So I wrote her a letter telling her I was upset and that she should have at least told me when she first started dating him. She always takes things the wrong way, like for example when I wrote her the letter; she thought that I was not her friend and that I didn't want to be around her. When I clearly stated in the letter that I didn't want our friendship to end.
She always takes things that way and she made me feel guilty over it. But I when I wrote the letter I wasn't like, "You stupid hoe! You should have told me!!". Not like that. So my question is. Did I have a right to do what I did? (link)
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this same situation happened to me a week ago. i broke up with my boyfriend and an hour later, he started going out with my friend. i didnt realise this until about 2 weeks later when my friend told me what happened. i was outraged!! i think you did the right thing, but make sure you explain to her what you truly think. if you want to be friends with her, tell her she was mistaken and tell her that you still want to be her friend, even though she kept this a secret.
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