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16 f.
i have a best friend, who ive been close with for about 3 years now. i love her too death and we have been soo close for soo long, but latley shes become extrememly conceited. shes always thought she was very good looking, and that never really bothered me that much. but now she has full out turned into a snobby girl. she thinks shes better then everyone else, and shes not the same person i was best friends with. i know her soo well, but she has changed! im a really laid back girl and i dont really get into drama just because i dont like it. so im not going to call her out and make a big deal over it, but i dont really know what to do about it,
should i stop being friends with her? or should i talk to her about it?
idk...what would you do in my situation?

thanks in advance!

well if it was me i would tell my freind the gods honest true how she has changed and grew to become a person i barely knew and that just isnt the way she should be because i feel like shes someone else and i would also point out that you know shes good looking and stuff but other people may find her a tad arrogant aka big headed and it wont go doown well with others and if she cant accept the critisim of you being an honest freind and go's of in one leave her because she should realise shes the one at fault and if all else fails maybe your better of without her because no one need s someone selfish and stuck up in there life .

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I always thought a best friend was someone you tell everything too, someone you trust, someone you can be yourself with and goof around with and a lot more. Was I wrong for thinking that? Is that what everyone else thinks best friends are for? I'm asking because my "best friend" doesnt tell me everything. She gets mad at me and says that I don't even know her. She always talks about how she can really talk to whatever new guy she's talking to about everything even stuff she cant tell me. She gets mad at me so easily and calls me a b**ch quite frequently. I've tried to talk to her about it, cause I don't understand why we are "best friends" if she can't even tell me everything, and gets mad at me all the time and calls me a b**ch. Thank you in advance. Any advice is really appreciated.

this one has a few answers yet only you will know which the right one is im afraid . you werent wrong for thinking a freind is someone you can share things and have fun with a lot more than other people and sometimes people are just how would you say private not because they dislike you knowing things just because the things they may not tell you may make them scared to tell you there could be so many reasons and well your freind shouldnt be making you feel second best to any guy the saying sisters before misters is true you cant pick a guy over a girl because at the end of the day the guy will leave and the girl will always be there to pick up the peices and she shouldnt bad mouth you shes meant to be your freind and freinds dont do that and sure i can see why u dont know why youre best freinds cause thats not the way people should be treated if they were your best freind and she should really have more respect for you .

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Oh my goodness. Our (my roommate and I )friend is very nice, but not really to other people. she's pretty, too, but she smells! Before we go out, she will take a shower, but she still stinks! We thought it was just us, but we met these nice boys and one liked her. Well, we became good friends with them and the boy told us that he stopped talking to her because she didn't smell good. How do we tell her? We don't want to embarass her or let her go through this without knowing again. AND she is kind of defensive in a way......

Thanks!

well really depends what kinda smell were on about the main thing to is say to your freind in the kindest way that she smells and your only telling her because everyone else is noticing and if they tell her it would hurt her a lot worse sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and sure she will be defensive no one likes to be told they stink but sometimes people have to realise some people just tell you things like that cause they care so you dont get teased or taunted by others so just say i know you wash and stuff but you have a little bit of a smell comin from you and well i thought i should let you know because a guy liked you and stopped talking to you through it and we dont want that to happen to you cause your pretty and deserve to be treat much better .

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