The whole reason i made this column is for practice. I want to be a child psychologist. What better practice than this?!? I believe everyone deserves a fair, helpful, honest answer. I dont think someone should feel ashamed or less of a person for asking a question.Im pretty open minded. Whatever it is you ask me I will try to help the best i can. AND I CAN PROMISE IF YOU ASK ME A QUESTION... A REAL ONE... ILL ANSWER IT. (MORE THAN LIKELY WITHIN A DAY)
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Just so you know about me. Im a 16 year old female. I like lipgloss/
tigger/clouds/
stars/roses/minty gum/
swimming/quotes/
poetry/rain/summer/
/beaches/shopping/
pink/ I dont like..
sand/bugs/
snakes/hieghts/
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im mad at my friend.well were pretty close like she knows alot about me and we hang out and stuff..but im like way mad at her she broke my trust (sounds cheesy i know) and stuff and thats like one of the most important things in friendship. well mine at least. and its not like she hasn't done this before. like in 7th grade and stuff but that was like when we weren't like close friends so i decided to forgive her... like give her a second chance. well now im not sure if i should forgive her cause i mean i don't think i can trust her at all anymore... and right now im like really don't want to be her friend at all... we've been friends for like along time...is it worth it to just let it go... and be her friend but not like we were...or should i just throw it all away? ..
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Dear Chancer,
it sounds like you know your options. To take her back as a friend or not. This has to come for your heart. If you take her back let her know that this is the second time and "three strikes your out!" This will give her a heads up and let her know she has been screwing up. However i wouldnt be to rude about the situation when you tell her that you want to be friends but shes screwed up...Because then she might going around saying "OMG he/she is freaking out about one little screw up. IT was an accident..or yada yada" So0 go easy which ever one you choose.
I cant choose weather or not your going to give her a chance or not...but i hope i helped some.
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