I'm all what you wouldn't call ordinary. xD
Anyway,I'm 16 years old and I'm in first year of high school.I like a lot of things,I don't hate anything in particular.I am a very nice person,with an attitude though,but I'm always there for people who need me.My friends tell me it's rare for someone to be so kind-hearted,so I'm pretty proud of the way I am. :D
I love fashion,music,shopping and hanging out with friends,as well as giving advice,well that's why I'm here,right? Anyway,if you need some advice on love and friendship,just ask away!
solariagirl94
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Age: 16
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There's this girl who I go to school with and she copies me all the time: from what I wear to my away messages and AIM profile. She steals quotes and stuff off my profile and pastes it on hers. She saw me hanging out with my guy friend one day, and now she's all over him. I could really care less, but it just seems like shes overdoing herself to be me. I dont want to take it as a compliment because its gotten pretty weird. Any suggestions? I dont exactly want to confront her because im not like that. And in a way it doesnt matter, but it just bothers me. (link)
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I'm in the same situation.well if you ant her to stop,you have to confront her.but not fight with her.you could ask her nicely to stop copying you and find her own identity.maybe she's jealous of what you have and who you are and wants to be you...anyway just talk to her and find out why she's doing that.That's what I would do.
solariagirl94
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I have a problem. I have always wanted abest friend that will be with m everywhere, and with me through everything. I keep sitting with new people that look like they are the perfect one for me!....dont laugh. after a while, they fade away, and i just want one that would want me as a friend as bad as i would want them :( one that wouldnt want anyone but me to hang out with and i just dont see that happening. im not unnormal or unnatractive, i just want a friend, and dont know what to do. help me! i am a girl.... (link)
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I've been in your shoes for 9 years.But it happened when I least expected it.I know this may sound harsh,and I'm really sorry if it does,but there's nothing you can do about it.Oh and one more thing:that person will also need more friends,I have a best friend who I'm attached to in a way you'd want someone to be attached to you...but he has other friends too,he can't be just with me.Regardless,he's always there for me.The point is,it doesn't matter if your best friend that you want to have will have a ton of others to hang out with...what matters is that he puts you above all of them.Just stay who you are,so that person will love you for you,and be your bff because of your personality and qualities,even flaws.Do something you like to cheer up and be patient.You know what they say,patience is a virtue! ;)
Hope I helped you somehow.
solariagirl94
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My friend, Her name is Kelsey.
She is dating this guy who I can't stand at all. Now, A few months or so ago there was this huge arguement between me and my best friend they broke up and Tim told her that I said she cheated on him..wtf? Anyway, A week later Kelsey and Tim got back together and she kept it a secret from me the entire time and our friendshp started going downhill a little bit when I told her I didn't say nothing. Not only did she avoid the problem and not talk to me but our friendship is STILL not the same. She will go awhile without talking to me then call me wanting to hang out and spend the night at my house...not only that but I live in apartment and I have rules to keep the television down after 10pm..she doesn't listen I've talked to her about this on several occasions. I'm fed up, She never listens to me at all and she talks over me.
What should I do (link)
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As cruel as it sounds,let her go.If she doesn't realize that Tim is bad for her you can't help her.And there is something we all agree on-there is no friendship without respect.If she doesn't respect you,and even worse,if it's becausse of a guy,then she doesn't deserve to be called your friend.First rule of friendship-friends don't keep secrets from each other.Basically,just let her be...she'll realise what she had when she loses it.I mean,what a good friend she had when she loses you.There's no point in trying to reason with her since she's so stubborn.Anyway,I hope that all this will be better soon.
best wishes,
solariagirl4
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16/f
i have a best friend who is now seventeen years old. we were boyfriend & girlfriend a year ago.. but we lasted about three months. but the thing is that i only saw him as a best friend than a boyfriend, including the fact that i rarely got to see him. and apparently he didn't get over me for a couple of months, but later on he did. he didn't like anybody for a while, only a little crush here and there. he's been single for almost a month now, but i've had a couple of boyfriends after him. i am now in a relationship with my current boyfriend for seven months. and me and my best friend still talks alot like usual. once school had ended, and summer started. i went on vacation, out of the country... and didn't have a computer or any of type of phone, and my best friend went off to new york. but he came back before i did... and ever since, he wasn't interested in anybody. for his seventeenth birthday, i surprised him at the bowling ally. he was happy and everything, and we started to hang out alot more, and talk on the phone more. and did what we always did.
but lately, now when i talk to him, he always says "i hate my life" or "fml" and i always ask him why does he say that, and he says that he's a loser. i asked why, but he said he always looses things. yesterday, i told him to tell me what was wrong cause i had to deal with that for the longest time ever. but he said "i'll tell you when i'm ready, and right now i'm not ready" which made no sense, because he didn't show any clues that he liked me again or anything, he makes fun of me and etc. and when he liked me before, he was always polite and throwing compliments at me. and later on, i kept asking him why wouldn't he tell me what was wrong.. and he said "if you were me, you wouldn't be ready to tell you either... it's harder than you think it is.. plus, it would probably effect everything. what if it involved a special person?" and today, he came over to my house.. i went through his messages cause him and my best friend was talking about something, and he said "did you tell mary (me) anything?" and my friend said "no, why?" so i don't know.
i suck at reading clues... help?! (link)
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it is highly likely that he likes you,from what you've said.And the fact that he hasn't been truly interested in anybody after all the time that has passed after you broke up with him points out the obvious.But I guess he doesn't want it to be that way,he doesn't want you to see that he does love you.Honestly,I feel bad for the guy.And he probably feels a lot worse if he knows you're in a relationship for 7 months with someone or so.And when he said he loses things,he ment how he lost you.I don't know if you like him,but if I were you,I'd question myself about it.Normally,a girl doesn't care if a guy likes her or not unless deep down she likes him too...and I think that is your case.
So,all I can say it...I hope this resolves smoothly and good luck with him!
I hope I helped anyhow.
best wishes,
solariagirl94
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