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I feel like my best guy friend is just using me for secrets. It's not fair, but I don't know what to do. When I try to tell him he gets all defensive. Help me sam...

don't worry, i'll talk to him for you. i think he could try to fix it

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hey ally and sam, its sara....ok heres the thing...you all know how im leaving...well....I DONT WANT TO!!!! theres nothing i can say to my parents to change their minds....i dont want to leave all my friends!!! im gonna cry!!!!

Sar I love you! Sadly, there's nothing I can really advise you on this one, just that everyone really loves you and will miss you too. Make sure you make the most of your last few days with us, and keep in touch always...


L

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What do you do with friends who use you?

In my best opinion, friends are not only people you hang out with and are fun to be around but you also have fights about stuff with friends. and that is normal and no matter what happnes you should always work to be friends again. cause friends are always better than no friends.

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hey this is josh yeahhhh i have biceps and i can mover my breasts! I was wonderin what i should do cuz i think i dont have a penis there nothing down there. and i seem not attracted to stephanie rivera

OH MY GOOOOD, HE'S SOO STROOONG. LOOK AT HIS MUUUSCLLESSS!

Sorry josh, but i don't think i can handle the magnitude of this questions. Go talk to dr phil

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Isn't Stupid face AJ's word??? what gives you the right to use it??

I'm very sorry about taking AJ's catch phrase and it won't happen again.
SB


Nice one Sam...it's ok, I give you full rights to my phrases. Oh wait, you already took SKETCHY too


Sorry once again.... I can't help it when i have the opportunity to steal amazingly genius catch phrases

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okay so theres this girl who used to be my best frined except we're not friedns anymore and i was really sad for a while. becuz of certain situations, i am forced to be around her. it is awkward and i want to be her friend again but i dont know what to do. please help

I know exactly how you feel. You need to talk to this girl very soon, or the situation will only get worse. She probably feels the same way but is too timid to talk about it, most likely because she's afraid you'll get into a fight over it. Bring it up gently and talk about it, because she's probably upset too.


Love and Luck,
AJ

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So the other day I heard a really disturbing rumor about Sam. I now cant help but laugh everytime I look at him. But I just feel bad that everybody is talking about embarassing stuff like that. How can I control the uncontrolable laughs? Though its a TINY rumor it seems to have made an impact.

I think you should take some of the heat off sam, and fill him in on some of the jokes. He might stop associating with you if some things aren't shared... maybe you should think about that hmmmmmmm

sbg

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I have been shopping for weeks though I am near broke I still have one gift left to buy, but it is utterly impossible. I have absolutely no ideas and I am running out of time. Im considering going in with another friend on a presant, but since the person if one of my best friends, it really does not seem very nice. So I am yet again stuck with no gift, no ideas and yeah, thats about it.

MAKE SOMETHING!! like.... uh.... a house out of popsickle sticks or somethin. you know. something "genuine". or make a t shirt with somebody's name on it, or a sock... ya know, whatever works. i mean, they're going to like a made present more than, than something like, a gold necklace, i mean c'mon

sbg


This friend would probably enjoy whatever you get them. It's not too big of a deal, it can be something small. I mean it's the thought that counts right? I agree with Sam, a "geniune" sock sounds fab.

AJ

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