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this is me.Jessica.
I might have created the universe, but i just can't remember if that was me or someone else.
ask me something because I give advice fit for kings (or queens)-(or both) =]
17... a small age for some.. but most of you think it is ancient. =P
advice
my birhtday is in 8 days and i cant decided to have a big party or just hang out with a few friends my back yard isnt to big and i dont no where else i could do it....should i just have a few fiends or just a little party like 20 30 poeple?
the only BIG parties should be 1, 5, 16, 18, 21, 30, 40, 50, 60.
anything in between is hang out with friends.
I have tons of friends, quite a few good friends, and 9 best friends. but I dont have one or two BEST friends. It kinda bugs me because most of my 9 best friends all have one or two BEST friends. i love all my friends to death, but something seems to be missing.
also, i am so different than my other friends and i really dont fit in with any of them. we are going into high school in the fall and i am SO nervous that they will split into a couple different groups and i'll be left to wander.
I also have trust issues i guess you could say. I have such a hard time trusting my friends. i feel like i cant talk to them about hard stuff because i'm supposed to be the strong one, that looks out for them. I end up keeping everything bottled up cuz i have no one to talk to. it's just so difficult because i have so many great friends, but i always feel like there is never anyone there for me.
Any advice on any of these friend issues would be appreciated thanks.
-14/f
i say you wear dark makeup, forget you had friends, and talk emo and gothic and melodramatic... that should solve ALL your problems... j/k
you should appreciate what you have.. you have friends.. hell, you even said that you have best friends, what are you complaining about? if they aren't your friends, then drop what you have and when highschool starts, find some new ones... forget stereotypes and just go and be yourself.. they say in life you only have as many friends as you have fingers...
and last but not least.. don't worry about it.. it sounds like you have enough friends to protect you in an even blanket of comfortableness...
don't sweat it.
My BEST friend of 7 years is turning o sweet 16 on march 26. My friends and I are already planning on kidnapping her and taking her to ihop in the morning. But as her Best friend i want to get her something really good! Any suggestions?
nothing like socks and girl scout cookies.
is it wrong that i dont get along, or not really like my best friends boyfriend?..i didnt think of it much, untill i remembered that i didnt like any of the other guys she has talked to before in the past...any advice on this??
you probably just really don't like her type...
you shouldn't say anything to her about it.. it causes unnecessary drama.
just know that you don't have to deal with him as much as she does.