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hey ok well people say i give good advice i am 13 years old so thnx for rating me

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ok so i have friends lol and well we have plans and they sometimes leave me out and they dont care so much and they dont try to find a way so i can come over. but whenever i have plans with them and one of them is left out the same girl that didnt care for me tries so hard for her to come and tries to find a way and sometimes lies to me and ditches me and has plans with her. what do i do?

ok she just wants to be in all the plans but doesnt care if your in the plans or not try not to be so mean like if she wants to come tell her she can come if she wants and when she has stuff going on with her she might invite you also maybe.
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so this girl was really pissing me off one night and i could not take it any more.. she was being soo rude and abnoxious. (we were at a party)and so i saw her digital camera and hid it in the house. and now i feel more guilty than ever!!! hands down i will not tell her it was me..

ok well you can take it out of that place and put it in her desk in school locker or backpack anywhere where she cant find you and somewhere where she can only find it cause if you put it like where everyone can see it someone might steal it.
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there is this really jappy girl in my grade, and i really dont like her.. i was never her friend i never talked to her. so she invited me to her bat mitzvah.. and you know the unwritten rule where you basically have to invite the people who invited you to your bat mitzvah.. but i really dont want to invite her sooo what do i do ??

dont go to hers and if you invite her she might not go to your but i am not for sure so just dont invite her to your theres nothing much you can do.
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my friend told me she was moving but she wont tell any of her other friends and i am afraid to ask why.. i think i'd be too nosy

-- puuhlease help

ask her why maybe she just wants you to know but i would ask her why she didnt tell anyone else.
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my friend and i are really close. but then my other friend said she talks behind my back and talks shit about me. im not supposed to know but i think its a big deal. i wanna talk to her about it but idk what she'll do if she finds out my friend told me.

have the friend who told you about her like talk more about you can you can just be there but not let the other girl see you like in a bathroom like you go in a stall and have them talk about you in the bathroom and once she says something bad about you come out and tell her why she talks all that shit dont wait like a week cause than she might forget and blame it on your friend.
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Hi.. i went out with this kid. n i really liked him..we broke up 3 times..then got back togather.i broke up with him during the summer cause i did see him. n i really like him. but now hes goin out with my best friend. They dont even taalk.its soo stupid!// what shud i doo?
please help!!

well you can tell your best friend why they dont talk so much and tell her that you really like him now and he was your boy friend first so you should be able to get him back with out her caring so much.
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i have these three friends and they always make plans without me. today in the morning i asked one of them to have plans and then later when i went online again i asked her so what are you doing and she says oh im going to the mall with chloe and danielle (other frineds) and she says what are u doing and i said nothing and she wouldnt even invite me and that not the first time this happened. im wondering if she or chloe and danielle actaully like to be around me. please help

ask one of them like a day before if they want to do something with you and if she says shes busy with other stuff ask another one if she busy also tell them how you feel about never hangin out with them and they try and find new friends.
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me and my friend got into a fight and then the next day her grandma died and then she didnt go to school the next day(funeral) i feel really bad but the fight is also over something important and i dont want to let her get away with what she did. but when i see her again in school idk what to say to her.

PS - i love your advice

thanks ok well ask her if she is sorry about what she did in the fight and say you sorry what you did in the fight and also sorry about your grandma thats about alll.
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Hey i like this boy but he like doesnt go out with anyone...,,... [what] should i DO i really LIKE himm
-jessie if it helps im 14

tell him that you like him before he finds someone else sorry its not to long thats about all you can do.
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my closest friend since 1st grade is a great friend and she is like the best. she is always nice and not a big trouble maker. but when she is with my other friends she is like the total opposite and on the edge and doing things she doesnt normally do. is she being fake to me????

she could be acting fake to you or acting fake to your other friends when you and her are hangin out go to your other friends and see if she changes and if she does say your the opposite to her.
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one of my friends is realllllly sensitive and me and my friends have tried to tell her and she lies almost all the and we cant take it anymore(her name is alex). everyday literally she gets into a fight with me or my friends over nothing. an example was one time she and my other friend were sleeping over my house and we were listening to my ipod and we were listening to alex favorite song so when it was over she grabbed my ipod(video)and played it again and when it was over she played it again and again so im like alex can we listen to another song? and she said fine and threw my ipod on the ground and locked herself in my bathroom and called her mom to talk her home.. AND IT WAS 1:30 AM !!! what the hell do i do ??

tell her and if she doesnt change get rid of her it seems like you have plenty of friends you dont need one like that.
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i'm a 13 year old girl that was friends with this other since 1st grade. we are sooo close but i've also been like really jealous because last year another girl in our group and her were in the same class and i really like her too as a good friend and they have become insepreble since now and no matter what i do to try to seperate them they just won't. i tried to tell them but they just shut me down, made me cry for 2 days and didnt take it seriously at all . they just said i was calling them gay and were making fun of me. now we are friends but its still an issue. what do i do?

ok well you can just let those two be friends and find someone else to hang out with but just dont stop being that girls friend..
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well, i live in new york and my name is jessica, and i like a kid the lives in florida named brandon... we havent met yet... but i think i really like him.... hes funny, nice, and everything i've been looking for... what do u think i should do... should i tell him...? or should i just kinda let him make the first move?

ok you havent met him yet so like you know him over the computer or somthing like that well if its over the computer than tell him you like him but dont give him to much infomation thats like about all you can do since like you havent met yet wow but i would tell him youy like him and than wait for him to make the first move i guess on the computer lol.
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okay well theres this girl and shes my best friend and she cuts herself and i dont know what to do to stop her or help her please HELP!!! i rate high VERY HIGH!i am in 7th grade

tell her parents or tell your guidance counselor to talk to her or something she must be cutting herself for some reason find out what that reason is and than try to fix it like sleep over her house and see what she gets mad at she might not cut herself in front of you but what ever she gets mad about.
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ok i have this friend and she tells me im so called her "best friend". yeah well she asks me stuff like just personal questions like about the guy i like and stuff.the thing is when i tell her she has no reaction. but if one of her other friends or cousins tell her she makes leik a big deal out of it like she actually has reactions and tells them things. i m not sure if you understand what im saying but if you dont tell me

what do i do?

oh yeah ps im in 9th grade

okay she probaly doesnt make a big deal out of it when you say it cause your her best friend and she doesnt want to lose you idk you can ask her.
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okay.. i have this one friend and shes not in my class ( im in 5th grade ) and ALL my friends and my ex-friends are in that ONE class. And i dont hang out with my ex-friends anymore! So i hang out with my new friends they're so nice! But one of them always always always talks trash about my ex-friends and im like i know but then at lunch and everything she sits with them and at art and at gym and ALL the other subjects! My friends sit near them sometimes and she says my friend is telling them everything i say and they are talking about me! my friend says thats not true! and she pinky swear that shes not friends with two of them ( out of three ) but like she talks to them ALL the time! and i was walking bye them and one of them said shes TAKING OVER YOUR LIFE she=me! and im not im sooooooooo mad i dont know what to do and im soo upset i think shes my friend but i dont even know! Shes sleeping over on friday!!!!!!!

PLZ HELP ME =( xoxo!

over the phone or something ask her why people are saying you talk about me to my ex friends and if she says she doesnt ask her why she talks about your ex friend to you when you hang out with them.. jst keep asking her more and more questions.
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me and my best friend have been always together last yuear hanging out and all this year we fight all the time and im really getting mad about it cause i hate to fight with a friend plus i do not like being mean to anyone what do i do im so confused what to do about this

this is happening to me just like say something funny to her or how ever you make your friends do it the same way to her,
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I have 6 friends to buy Christmas presents for, and I know I have at least 100$ to spend, but I don't want to spend ALL that!! Can you help me think of gifts to buy for each of them that are under 10$? I'll tell you a little about each person...
Kaylee- Likes sparkles, but is sporty, and lovesss good movies!
Rachael- Very girly, and loves pink!
Scotlyn- Somewhat girly, and likes glitter, etc.
Summer- Loves to READ! She loved the book "Blue is for Nightmares".. If you've read it, that's the kind of books she likes!
Hannah- Girly.. likes makeup!
Kassy- Likes tinkerbell and monkies, and frogs.

I need to buy them each something 10$ or under! Please help me!

I'm also not sure what to get my mom. I don't really have a price limit on her, but I know I'm getting her a candle and a snowglobe. I'm just not sure what else to get her!

ok you can get Kaylee a movie or a sparkly sporty pillow like a baseball or what ever sport she likes the most... Rachael a pink slippers pjs robe anything else she likes but in pink...Scotlyn what ever her favorite color is and get some glittery bracelet or necklace nailpolish...Summer a book thats some what like blue is for nightmares sorry i dont know any book thats like that cause i never read that book...Hannah a makeup kit or just put different makeup together and make one yourself...Kassy maybe pjs with one of them on it and a little stuff animal to go with it or something that shouldnt go over about 60$ for your mom go around your house see whats old or stuff that she looks at when she goes shopping and get her that...

Hope I Helped Merry Christmas

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Me and my best friend,kay have been friends for 4 years and were totally close. Around Christmas, birthdays, or special occasions i tend to get big gifts. Like on time i bought her a green flower necklace ($20) and earrings ($10). At christmas i gave her a adult make up kit ($30) and her birthday this year i got her the black eyed peas cd (monkey business)($14), a unique black shimmering purse ($50), green 7up label shirt ($6) and a black shimmering belt($3) to go with the black purse. Then for her last year birthday i got her Nordstrom pajamas ($20-$30)and a piggy bank with her name panited on it ($40). Is that too much? But thats how i share my love for her. That's just the way i am i go a little over, but there neccessary. I hate if someone else got the gift i wanted to give her before me or i see something perfect and i don't get it. I don't really look at the cost that much. Everything i gave she liked because of her personality and the way she favored them. When she buys my gifts she feel there like 5 levels under mine. She doesn't have the money like my parents do, but i love and cherrish whatever she gives me. I love everything she gives me even if it was a damn peanut. I just the thought of her thinking about me. She wants me to tone it down. It will kill me! My mom even thought to give her a coach purse ($198- $300). I said no that's no what she would like that's something i would lik so. This is just the way i amd and my family we go overboard. Basically we go to the best stores for the gifts we know won't fall apart. I never had anyone complain about me giving them too much. She always talks about the cost all the time like a she's an adult and it gets annoying and takes the fun out of a few things. What should i do should i ddown size or just stay me? HELP ME (i rate high*)!!!!!!!!

i would downsize it because your making her feel bad about what she gives you give her about that same amount of money she would pay on you.
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ok...i could tell a whole novel about this...but i`ll make it short. there is a friend i`ve known since...4th grade (im in 6th now) and she is not so true. she always gets made at me for stupid reasons. she just dumps all kinds of shit on me. then i just act like...ok idc (when shes all mad) and she gets even more pissed..so she says OH WERE NOT FRIENDS ANYMORE and she`ll come crawling back to me in a few days. she`ll blame it on all kinds of crap like OH I HAD A BAD DAY. i dont like to take this shit because she is the biggest backstabber i have ever met. but somthing inside wants to me to stay friends with her. also, she is mean. she gets in trouble all the time. she always makes fun of peopel and there things. she thinks if she makes fun of their stuff it makes her look better...well you should get the point...please help! thx bye!

okay well you could tell her that she must be having a bad day a lot of times because she seems to do this a lot just tell her that you cant be her friend any more anything like that.

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