I'm Ray, & i'm different . Not that type of different that everyone claim to be, so i appreciate this everyday . It isn't so bad actually so i have fun with it . I love giving advice and i do not tell anyone any wrong or misleading advice . I'll be real with you and try to help you help yourself . But i just ask that you be patient with me and explain the whole situation fully . I do not judge so i will never make you feel uncomfortable coming to me & i will never make you feel wrong for how you feel .
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Alright well I'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both guys, I'm just wondering if we have a good friendship and if I should hold onto it. We have had some trouble in the past because I'm bi and I used to like him and I told him about 4 months ago but then I decided to lie and say I didn't like him so we could stay friends.. Anyways we are really good friends in my opinion we can hang out with each other for 5 days and not get sick of each other we hang out all the time, we don't really talk about EVERYTHING tho.. We talk about everything except my being bi or "used" to like him or anything sexual, but I mean we have lots of inside jokes and when we hang out we always laugh and stuff. The other day I asked him in person how good of I friend I was and I said be 100% honest and he told he I was at the top :) It's hard being friends with someone you like but I feel like I need a good friend like this. And also is it a problem that I always text first? And usually I am the one to ask to hang out but when I do he ALWAYS says "sure" and we always have fun? Good friendship!?!???? (link)
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Its nothing wrong with your sexuality be proud of it ! Okay he may not float that way and you mustn't force it on him . But i say keep the friendship and cherish it because you may not find too many real friends out there . He may just not understand and he probably don't know what your intentions are. Talk to him, yes tell him you like him but that's not the point you'd rather be friends and the fact that you like him doesn't change a thing ! & tell him that it seems as if he doesn't want to hangout because you always have to ask first. Don't get me wrong you love the time you guys have but you would like to be shown that . If he understands than trust me sweetheart things will get better . He just need a little time to learn how to deal with this but its not wrong to be attracted to a friend . Its not . Goodluck !
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