Hey everyone!! Well where should i start? Well my name is Chelsey, i live in Connecticut. Ever since i was a little kid i was sort of the person that everone runs to and tell them their problem, and they knew that i would never tell anyone. Also I have a lot of experiance in helping people i am a Peer Mediator in my school and i have been one for 4 years now. I have heard probably every problem that you can imagine from little things to very very dangerous issues. I can't really say some of the things that i have herd because that would braking my code of confidentiallity but i'll tell you some of the things that i have been through. Well I have delt with a lot of love issues from boyfriends to even your family neglecting you from love. For example my Father was a great dad when i was younger but what happened is my parents got divorced because my Father used to abuse my Mother and my Mother knew that she had to get out of the relationship for me because she didn't want me to grow up to that and think that it was a healthy relationship. So at first he was a perfect dad like he was when he was married to my mom but soon he became a deadbeat father never paying child support and never caring about me. He became a criminal which is in prison right now. Well yeah thats all i'm really going to say about that. I have also had a whole lot of experiance with self injury because i used to inflict injuries on myself (a.k.a i used to be a cutter). Also i have had a lot of friends in the past that used to cut and i have helped them all quit because i have helped them through it but i didn't make them top i gave them the comfidence to make themselfs stop. Because i have always said you can never make anyone do anything you can only suggest things and try to make it happen. Only them can have the power to make themself do something. I also know a lot about abuse because my Mother used to be abused by my Father, her Mother and her Brother. And she has told me all about it. Also one of my close friends has been abused by her Father. I know a lot about friendships too and how to make them better. Well thats all i have to say but i am excited to be giving everyone advice soon!!! Lots of Luck to everyone but making their lives better!!
Lots of love xox,
Chel
Gender: Female
Location: Branford
Age: 16
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Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you. (link)
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You really need to tell him!!!!! Your hurting him even more by not telling him!!! i know he's gonna be upset but theres other girls out there. Also imagine if you don't tell him the things he might do before he ask her out how more upset he'll be when she says no also how embaressed!!!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM!!!!!!!
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Last January I told my best friend that I had made out with someone before. It wasnt true-at the TIME I thought I had made out with somebody, but then I asked my older sister and it turns out what I thought it was wasnt, and I hadnt made out with him, just kissed. I was so embaressed (I had told 2 friends and 2 guys it was a small get-together) I haven't told any of them it wasnt true. But my friends are still persisting to know who it was. I dont want to say I lied to them because thats embarressing, but its hard to keep this up cause I'm a bad liar! My best friend said she wasnt sure if she even believed me! I dont want to be like 'in 8th grade i didnt even know what making out was' not to mention the fact ive kept this up forever but its getting out of control! HELP! (link)
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ohhh!!!!...i've been there i told my friend that i made out with someone and i really didn't...and i kept lying to them and i don't know how but they found out from someone that it wasn't true and they got really mad at me for lying to them they said why didn't you just tell us the truth we would of understanded. so i suggest that you should tell them the truth if there really your friends they'll understand and forgive you.
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