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hey this is katie and if you ever need to ask me a question i will answer it!.. so yeahh

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um there is this girrll and i have helped her soo much thru life. and i dont get a thank you, i love you, or thanks for being there for me.. ? well here is the point, ok soo "my friend" tells me that she is just sooo "iNLoVe" with this guy.. so i help her out. and noww there going out.. sounds good i guess. but i found out they are going out. i asked her if they were and she was like yeahh.. and i mean why didnt she tell me that they were going out ?? instead i found out. and aftre helping her and everything, i dont even get a thank you. what should i do ? --you know who this is ;-)-- well so much for being a bestfriend, abbie.

goodness. lately this has been a problem w/ me too. i can't help but know why she didn't clue me in that they were going out. i mean she always tells me she is like i am going out w/ *********************** and i am like "cool" every single time. yeah (she will say yes to ANYBODY) except people we don't hang out with. but annyway i don't see what is going on. i mean wow this makes me sad that she doesn't like TALKING to me anymore i mean we always talk, on the phone like all the time. and lately not really. but wow even abbie said to me shes been feeling weird lately.. but that was before brandon and her were going out agaiiin. but you know what thats ok. being single is the best for a seventh grader. so hah. in your freakin face. i win. i hope i helped dearest friend.
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I have this group of friends and they are cheerleaders. I'm not a cheerleader but I never thought that mattered. Anyways I thought they were my friends and I actually was best friends with them until this year. They don't include me in anything anymore. I had to find a new group of people. But for some reason I still want to be friends with them. Help me please
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Im glad I have at least 1 best friend

well obviously they aren't true friends if they don't want to do anything with you. but sometimes things get hectic and they are always busy but if they purposely make a point not to include you in things that is where it becomes difficult. well if it were me i guess i would be jealous that they don't like to include me in things. so if i were you then i would ignore them until they notice you.. it works for me sometimes. like there is this girl and she is really nice then i normally walk with HER and so one day i got sick of her not walking with me so i just ended up walking to class by myself. the next day she was like ok lets go to class and she walked with ME. so sometimes you just gotta make them to where they need YOU for something and they will include you more. also the other thing about wanting to be friends with them. that happens to me a lot. one time there was this really mean girl at my school and i just could not stand her.. but yet i wanted to be friends with her? yeah weird, well i hope i answered some what of your question.
-kt

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