I'm Kaela. I like to help ppl with their problems. That's all you need to know.
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My best friend, Claire, is basically the leader of the 'bad crowd' at our school. She started drinking/having sex at the age of 13, and we are now 16. We've been very best friends since age 12, but I on the otherhand follow all the rules. She got arrested for having alcohol/getting drunk on school property. She swore she wouldn't drink after a near-death drinking expeirence that hurt everyone around her when she wasn't expected to live through the night. We fought on and off about her problems, but finally she toned down the drinking and we became closer then ever. She truly is my very best friend, she's been there for me with everything.
Now, she's skipping school again, she's drinking every weekend, and having sex with random guys more then ever. I want to save her again. I can't fight against her. When I do, she pushes me away and does more and more illegal things. I don't want to lose my best friend again, it hurt too bad the first time. Please help. (link)
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I know exactly what you're going through. And it's hard. First, try talking to her. =Maybe that will work, maybe it won't. If it doesn't, you have to learn something. That you don't have to completely abadon her, but oyu can't get to colse. Because I have ahinch she's one of those people that takes takes and akes and never gives anyhting. So you have to just figure out that it costs to much to give yourself over:(
I'm really sorry, and I hope this helped.
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