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I'm Christian. I'm 5'3 i have dark brown eyes. I love to be with my family and friends. I enjoy life to the fullest. I love to go to church and listen to the word of God. And i love to give advices. The way i give an advice is what i would do if i was is that persons shoes so i hope to here from you.
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My best friend is just like me exact! i mean we say all the same thing at the same time and everything! she taly alsome! we do everthing to gether.Do u think well stay best friends? (link)
If you guys keep the trust and the faithfulness and don't lie to each other i think your friendship will be forvever. I hope i answered you question


im a pretty supportive person when it comes to my friends. when they need to talk i listen, when they ask for advice i give it to them, my opinion etc. but when i need to talk sometimes they wont listen. i do talk alot but im not a bad listener and im always their for my friends when they need me to be. recently i had a really hard week and i NEEDED to talk to a friend of mine, but every time i tried calling or iming etc. she wouldnt answer. then i commented her on myspace and she freaked out on me! she was like " sometimes people just dont want to talk when theyre mad, your not the only one w/ problems!" and i didnt have a clue what she was talking about! if she needed to talk she could have just said something and i would have listened to her while she talked it all out, but when i needed her she wasnt there for me. am i over reacting, or is she in the wrong? PLEASE HELP! (link)
YOu know what seriously your friend doesn't care about you she only cares about herself. You need to stop thinking about other people so much and think about your feelings too. Because your important too. And if you need someone to talk to even though you don't know me you can talk to me about anything. Consider me your new friend. So i hope this could help you a little and if you have any question don't doubt to come to me or better said write to me about anything. And your a good friend there should be more people like you bye And she is wrong in every way


it was my friends bday today but im not gonna see her until monday so thats when im gonna give her her gift. shes turning 14 and shes also leaving for overnight camp on tuesday does anyone have any ideas of what i could get her???
i was thinking of getting her a gift card or something but idk.

thanks (link)
That wouldn't be a bad idea that way she can get whatever she wants with a gift card.


well... i was really close to this girl, we were good friends and then like one day we was planning to do stuff like goo to the movies that day then she rang back later and said she couldn\'t do anything the next day so im like oh ok.. and then i was on msn and herd from my boyfriend and his cousin that she had invited them over to her house the next day.. i was stunned coz she lied 2 me and said she couldn't do anything and that she didnt even invite me or her own boyfriend to her house instead she invited my boyfriend and his cousin... her little sister and her were only going to be home the next day and her mum doesn't let her have boys over when she isnt home...my boyfriend was at his house with his cousin and they were saying to her on msn like would you have sex with me tomorow(the cousin said that) and she was like no becoz i have a boyfriend and i wouldnt wanna cheat coz i love him and all... i was pissed off at her for inviting them over already.. anyywayz it came the next day and i was like mehh stuff it im gona go out so me and my sister went shopping.. then when we got home at like 4 my boyfriend called me and him and his cousin were going on like guess what i had sex with your friend annd all i was like wtf coz shes 13 and my boyfriends cousin is 17 annd she has never had sex before (she told me she wouldnt until she was ready and had atleast been going out with the guy for more then 4months or something) anyway i was soo shockked i was like omg wtf.. annd then there like nahh were only joking and im like ok annd didnt really believe them anymore.. annd then later on msn they go to me were sorry yeahh my cousin really did have sex with my friend and i was like noo you told me before they didnt.. and there like well it did happen.. then i decided to message my friend and ask her.. so i did, and she replieed and said no it didnt really happen i only hookedup with him as a dare and i was like wat you cheated on your boyfriend coz you hookedup with another guy (this was the first time she had met my boyfriends cousin) and she was like it wasnt cheatin it was a dare.. then i messaged and asked was that all and shes like yess i wouldnt do anything else... then at that moment my boyfriend and his cousin were like to me nahh it didnt really happen and my friend just messaged me and said sorry i take it all back it really did happen.. i had sex with him and i was soo shockked i couldnt not believe it.. and my boyfriend and his cousin still denided it and said it didnt happen.. (his cousin has a fioncee) annyways and i rang my friend and she was like crying on the fone and i go who else knows and she said my mum and im like well tell me everything that happend.. (this was her story) \"we went into the bedroom and your boyfriend (my boyfriend) and my little sister were out in the lounge watching movies and while we were in the bedroom he asked if i wanted a hug coz he said i looked cold so i said ok and then he started hooking up with me (making out) and then he asked if i wanted to hop into the bed soo it was warmer so im like ok and then we hopped in and he started un-dressing me..then he asked if i wanted to have sex and i said yes and then we had sex and after 5mins i said stop becoz it was wrong and it hurt so much\"... i was soo shocked i was like i gtg annd hunng up!! then the next day came and i woke up to a fone call from my friends mum.... she said to me that it really did happen and that she had taken my friend to the docotors and all and i was like im soo shocked i cant believe she even did that becoz its her first time and she goes and does it with a 17 yearold and there not even going out!! and it was the first time she had met him.. and her mum told me to be supportive and like stick by my friend and all and give her sympathy coz she isnt in a very good state at the moment.. i was like ok.. then yesterday i was talking to my boyfriend and he was telling me the truth that really happend.. and i found out that my friend had also given his cousin head and he licked her out!! i was shocked even more soo as she had not even done this with her boyfriend yet.. i was also told that his cousin and her had also had a conversation over the fone the day after it had happend saying that she would doo it again!! i was like STUNNED.. becoz as if she is proud of what she did.. she lied 2 lots of people eg.me she cheated on her boyfriend and she broke her mums trust... i dont think i can be friends with her after she is trying to get sympathy from people but then telling other people in a way thats like she is proud of wat she did!! i dont think i can be friends with a person like that.. she lied to me and it really hurt me and i was already angry at her for even inviting them over and telling me she couldn't do anything.. she also told my other friend yesterday that she got raped!! and that is no where near true!! she agrreed 2 have sex with him and she was happy with it becoz they were going for over 30mins (which is what my boyfriend said) annd she also did other stuff which means she didnt plann on stopping.. she also agreed to doo it again!! her and her boyfriend have broken up now and im glad becoz she does not deserve him at all!! she should be ashammed of what she did and its nothing to be proud of!! i dont no how i can not judge her even thoo she is ment 2 be my friend.. but i dont no anymore becoz i still cant get over what she did!! this is gona stick with her for the rest of her life and your virginity is not something you can just throww around you want your first time to be special not with someone that you had only met for like 30mins and that you dont even no annd your not even dating.. can you please help me and give me some advice im sorry this is so long i just wanted to give you the whole story.. please helpp i need some advice... should i still be her friend ?? or should i tell her how i really feel?? what do i doo?? 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my adive is to always tell people how you feel because that way your friendship becomes stronger and that way you'll know what really happened on your own and not by hearing it frim other people always ask the person who it is what happened other than people that were there because sometimes the people that were there intend to add more to the story




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