HEY EVERYONE!!! OK,SO I GUESS YOU WANT TO KNOW A LITTLE ABOUT ME AND MY COLUMN. WELL I AM SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD AND I HAVE DEALT WITH MORE THAN MOST PEOPLE MY AGE. I LIKE TO HELP PEOPLE AND BELIEVE THAT THIS IS ONE WAYS TO DO SO.
THIS COLUMN WILL BE TO GIVE ADVICE TO ANYONE THAT ASKS. YOU CAN ASK ADVICE ON ABOUT PRETTY MUCH ANYTHING AND I WILL DO MY BEST TO HELP. BUT PLEASE ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT I AM NOT PERFECT AND THAT WHEN YOU TAKE MY ADVICE IT IS AT YOUR OWN RISK. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST AND HOPE THAT I CAN HELP YOU ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
TRULY,
NORET
Gender: Female
Occupation: STUDENT
Age: 17
Member Since: January 2, 2005
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O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
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Please at no point think that I´m trying to be mean or anything, but I´m going to be as truthful as I can with you. First and above all you must be a friend to her, be there at all times so she can have a shoulder to cry on, advice her the best you can, and show her (tell her) how important she is to you. Many times people in her situatin just need some guidance and lots lots of love. (I know I know you probably think this are obvious things but you´d be amazed at how often people forget to do things like these for their closest friends.) Then if her LIFE and well being matter more to you than loosing her friendship, you should contact your school counselor and tell him/her what you´ve written here. The counselor will know how to act....for her best.
Last of all, know that you can do only your best which is to love her tons and aid her to the best of your ability. Best of luck and know that your friend is ery lucky to have you.
Truly,
Noret
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