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My name is Lizzy, and I love to give advice! Maybe a little too much....haha. I'm in the 12th grade. My hobbies are scuba diving, writing, poetry, and reading. I love the ocean and I love to travel! I am also very interested in psychology, and in studying the way the human mind works, and I'm taking it in school.*DISCLAIMER* it's up to you to use your judgement with matters. you are the only one who knows your own unique situation and feelings, and only you can make the right decision about what to do. my advice is just a suggestion, and what i would do if i was in your situation.
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ok theres this girl and shes a year older than me and she goes to my school ok yeah and some one gave her my sn and now she wont leave me alone i ahve profiels and stuff so she leaves messages in my guestbook alwaysz constatly call ing me fata$$ or b**** or anythign u can think of and shes annoying she sayz this stuff at school and im not a narc so im not telling on her but i wann kick her a** but i know i will get in depp trouble what do i do to put her in her place and make her shut up!?
you know she's just trying to get to you. act like you're not bothered by what she's doing and eventually, when she sees that you're not going to be any fun to annoy she'll leave you alone. kicking her a**, while it may feel really good and help vent off all that pent-up anger, won't solve anything, and it'll make you look just as bad as her.
Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!!
it sounds like your friend is really insecure. she may honestly think she's ugly, no matter what people say, to the point of obsession. i believe this is a condition called body dismorphic disorder, and it's a psychological disorder. some people just crave attention, whether it's from members of the opposite sex or just from everyone. a lot of times they really can't help it, and they don't realize that they're doing it, because a lot of times it's a subconcious thing. in this case, it probably wouldn't do any good to talk to her about it, because chances are all that will do is make her defensive. on the other hand, some people just do it intentionally, to stoke their own egos. in THAT case, consider: is this person really worth being friends with, if she's just going to be making me feel bad about myself all the time? if not, maybe you just need to move on. without actually knowing the person, i wouldn't be able to say which option is more likely.
Ok so I have this friend named Brit and Brit is like so cool she has a lexus and a belly ring and we like hang out alot and like lately she like ignores me and it like hurts my feelings cause i like have no one to go to the mall with and i like have to go alone and like buy my fuzzy sweaters and handbags all by my like self and i like feel hurt and stuff. like what should i do? byeness!
Jennifer
like, you want to know what i think? i like think i know the reason why ur friend brit is like, ignoring you. did you ever like consider that maybe ur like really annoying? like, maybe she's sick of you always like hanging around her because you like say the word like too much and you like don't use any punctuation! like, maybe you should get a life? ok, byeness!
Ok. my friend and I have a rather odd relationship. We're good friends, and we talk all the time online, but we feel like we can't talk when we see each other because his other friends are there, and 3 out of the 4 of them that are there really don't like me for reasons I don't know. They don't like it that he even callls me a friend and I know, that sounds really stupid. I personally am not terribly worried about peer pressure, I'm pretty cool under it, but he's not. He lets things get to him. We're both kind of sick of hiding that we're friends, but telling the other guys to get over it won't help. The other guys think that's it terrible that he's friends with my best friend, (they don't like her much either) and both he and I know that they'd REALLY hate it if they knew that he was friends with me.
Any ideas of how to be able to admit we're friends, and not have anyone get hurt at all?
i think this is pretty much a case of him having to choose between his friends and you. if he really cares about you, he should be able to admit that he's your friend. i can understand how he wouldn't want to lose his other friends, but enough is enough!