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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!

Depends on how old is she. It's a personal choice,r eally. You could try talking to him about it but if someone wants to smoke, they will. Goodluck.

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okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??

i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend

The theme of the party should depend on what he likes, and as for the gift, make sure you give him soemthing personal. Don't try to get him the "best, most expensive" gift you can give him, but ine that will mean a lot to him and he will remember forever.

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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10

Let them know how you felt about it and ask them nicely not to do it again, because if you don't they might just play a similiar trick and you will be paranoid about it.

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Ok I have 4 friends...2 of them I really like to hang out with cause they r down to earth, fun to hang out with, don't act to crazy and I have a lot of fun with them...The other 2 i love hangin out with also but... they r really crazy don't get me wrong I love them to death but.....The first 2 don't like hanging out woth the second 2 as much cause they are really crazy...i don't know what to do...To be honest I really like doing stuff with the first 2 somewhat better cause they are more like me but I really like hanging with the others also....What do I do?

It's very possible for you to hold friendships with different kinds of people. All of your friends don't have to be friends with each other, just make time for both groups of them and eventually you will either start to hang around more and more with one of them or you will keep both of them seperate - and either way is okay.

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