Hey guys im Lisa
Uhm. I think im pretty good at giving advice.
I want to be a psychiatrist when i grow up so, i suppose i should be good at this.
Im a freshmen, i live in Texas, and I like giving advice on love or friendships.
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This takes a little explaining.. High school drama stinks..
I had this really great guy friend, we'll call him David, and one day in October 2006 I realized that I felt more than friendship for him. I was totally in love with him. I told him on New Year's Eve and it really seemed like he had the same feelings and we started hanging out and stuff and we were pretty much "unofficially" going out. Another girl at school, we'll call Brook, who has a very bad reputation and is not not to be mean but is not at all attractive, liked him a lot as well. I found out on Valentine's Day last year that they were officially going out. I was crushed and depressed. David and I were no longer friends and she rubbed it in my face that she got him and I didn't. They dated, but never communicated at all, they only text messaged, nothing else, until right after school started back this year and she broke up with him for another guy I liked, we'll call Pablo. She started dating him, so David and I had slowly gotten our friendship back and he fell for me. I made sure he had no feelings for Brook, and he assured me he didn't. We started going out and had an amazing relationship. We spent all our free time togther and fell in love so fast. It was amazing and we both loved each other so much and had even talked seriously about a future.. All in the six weeks we went out.. One morning he said "we need to talk" and he took me in the hall at school and he had realized that he was still in love with Brook and he had just used me to make her jealous. He had called her the night before and told her and she was breaking up with Pablo the same day. The next day David and Brooke were back together. Me, David, and Pablo are all Christians. David has put on a huge front and is being extremely immature about everything, and his whole life has turned into an act. He could be an absolutely amazing person, but has made some horrible descisions and gotten caught up with Brook. I think they're having sex as well. David always wanted more from me, but I never realized that. I'm still kinda friends with David because I'm still in love with him. Does anybody have any advice whatsoever for this? I love David and it's killing me to see him throw himself away like this. He always has the most sad and lost look in his eyes, and he's completely lost. I want to do anything I can to help him, but I really don't know what to do. I kinda also still have feelings for Pablo and things between us might work out soon. Any advice whatsoever would help! My life is so messed up and I really need some advice on helping it get back on track. I'm spending tons of time in prayer for everybody in this situation, and I just need direction.
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Weellll. Haha seems like you've got yourself into a dilemna. I think that you should really take time off from liking anybody. Just figure out what YOU need right now. After all, if David wants to go and ruin his life thats whats hes going to do. But if you really feel the need to talk to David, tell him about what all your feeling. Tell him that you want him to be happy.
+ And i think that if you really want David to be happy, you should want him to whether it involves you in his life or not. The biggest act of love is sacrifice.
I hope i helped! =]
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14/f. ok so i have this best guy friend who have a crush on. and he really likes me too. well the other day we started talking but little did i know he's talking to this girl i hate. and it makes me mad b/c he's always saying ily and callingme bby and other stuff...but yet he's doing it o her too.
and on his tops on myspace she's 4th i'm no where on there. i wa son his headline for one day. i wonna say i don't like him anymore and call it off but i like him too much and what if that distroys our friendship?
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Do you think if he really liked you he would be telling the other girl, the same things he tells you? If you want to solve the problem you need to talk to him about it. And myspace
'top' friends, dont mean anything. You shouldnt take it that seriously
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