hey what up.
you can ask me anything. for being my age i'm pretty smart, have a fair amount of common sense and i have been through a lot. I answer any type of questions really. i won't just give you random advice either. if i know how to answer, i'll answer, if i'm not so sure, i probably won't. i wouldn't want to say the wrong thing. and i don't tell you just what you want to hear, because most of the time, it's better that you hear what you don't want to. that's one piece of advice in itself. :P
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I really hate being jelous of people...but when one of my friends gets everything: everyone likes her, she gets stright A's, got into the TOP chior, has gone to EVERY top band thing, pretty, outgoing, everything i am not....I don't want to be jelous of her.....
Any ideas on how to make myself feel better around her?(everytime i am around her i feel so inferior and like she could be friends w/ better people) (link)
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well i know help you here. =]
i'm also in band, and i'm pretty jealous of some of my friends because they are a lot higher than me. and sometimes a lot of ppl get it thrown in their face. well i have to tell you not to compare yourself with her. play as best you can and the real TOP person in the end is yourself. you don't need to make anyone else happy either.
i have a friend everyone likes. and a lot of guys like me too. we actually got into a fight over some stuff in that catagory. but we were tired of being mad and talked it out. she only ended up with her ex bf again. and for me, i just realized, it's not that great to have everyone like you. just because they do doesn't mean it'll work out. you see what i'm saying? so i'm telling you that you should just ignore her and the guys because i'm sure you'll find better than all those people. =]
and for the straight A's. i get most A's but not all. and in school, again, just do the best you can. you're work will pay off later. ;)
altogether, just don't worry about what she's doing. i always have my friends telling me not to make other people's problems my problems. in this case, don't form any problems of your own.
you're just as equal as she is. and if you think about it, she may have it great, but she could be jealous of you for some things. you'll never know. she's your friend like you said, so i think you should talk it out with her about how you are feeling towards her.
trust me, everything will be better.
good luck. =]
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My best friend and I are like sisters.We have known eachother for 3 years and been best friends for 3 years.I send her mail twice but she hasnt written me yet.What should I do?
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i think she is busy and hasn't checked her mail yet. i don't think she would forget about you. and you might want to be a little more patient with your her.
hope i helped.
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well my "friends" Audrey and Emily got involved with a teacher harrasing them and he only said he wants to have sex with me. Well this guy Nelson told everyone about the harasing thing and some a couple of people came up to me and asked me if I got harrased and i said "He just said some things to me but it was mostly Audrey and Emily" but the people are telling my friends that i spread the thing about the teacher and they are saying i said I was the one mostly involved but i didnt say that. so now all my friends think i am a liar and stuff but i didnt lie. and they wont believe me, and they dont want to talk to me..
How can i make them believe me? i basically have no one to hang out with at lunch now because theyre accusing me of something i didnt do. i even told them that if they were my true friends they would believe me and theyre like "We just dont believe you"
please help me... (link)
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first of all, either if they don't believe you they may not be your real friends or you need to march up to the person who spread the rumor and tell them to set things straight. and you need to make sure that they do.
hope i helped!
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