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ok one more question thats sorta like additional info. w/a question. The thing about my friend as that she is sorta always in a bad/bitchy mood. And today i found out that my other friend told her what i said about her behind her back when i was mad at her and now she is like super pissed at me...anyway my question is i want to tell my mom i want to see a therapist because ive been kinda stressed lately (no i havent been raped or cutting myslef or anything like that..i jus want to c one) so how do i tell my mom??
Thanx for the advice on the otha questions too!!
XO~Michelle~OX

well, this is what i would do, because im really close with my mom. so if youre also really close to your mom you could just go up to her and be like, "hey mom, can i talk to you for a sec?" then shell probly say like "sure hunny" and then youll be like,"okay, well you know my friend ____ well shes been really really mean lately. and it's making me all stressed out not only with her, but with other things too. so i was wondering if maybe you could take me to a therapist?"
and if youre not really close with your mom and youd prefer not to tell her about your friend
you could just do the hey mom can i talk to you for a sec thingy and then say " okay so ive been really stressed out lately with school, homework, sports(if you play one), and so i was just wondering if you could maybe take me to go see someone about it"
and don't worry. your mom wont think youre weird or anything. shell be sooo happy that you decided to confide in her about this.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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Ok you answered my question about my friends and my boyfriend... I have another question about it. Well my friends havent really been there for me lately, i mean all my real friends live away from me, i have one real friend (im going to name her katie), well katie & i have known each other since kindergarten,but became friend in like 5th grade (we are now in 8th), We are really close. well we have been fighting and she acts like she doesnt want to be my friend, she can be a real bitch and stuff, but we get each other and when its me & her we have like our own world with stuff no one else would get like a donnie moment or a lamo,any way she talks about me behind my back and when i find out i talk about her to the friend who told me that she said that.& i know Katie does it too. so should i stay her friend or what? if you have a question about any of this let me know so i can help you help me if you get what im saying..
Thanx!!&& sorry this is long...

okay well i would defenitly stay friends with her. great friends are hard to find. and it seems liike you have def. found one. because yeah, she talks about you behind your back and that sucks, but when you think about it? who doesnt? because really when you go looking for a new friend youre gonna start to realize that at one point or another all of them are going to talk about you behind your back, some of them you may not realize it, others you will. and all people have their bitchy moments. so when katie is having hers just try to ignore her and wait for her to cool down a little bit! ask again if you want more advice or i didnt answer it the way you wanted(( as i didnt get the question the right way, even thoughi think i did))
hope i helped!
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im 13/f,me & my boyfriend hav e been going out since sept 21 '06. It was all cool until like December when we started get fights. My friends and him don't get a long, my best friend and him hate each other!! they've tried to make it work for me but they ended up fighting again. They both said they wouldnt try to fix their problem its just not going to work, well everyone wants time with me and stuff. But im always busy with school,and my boyfriend (his name is going to be Bob)... Well im almost with Bob,and want more time with my friends, but then when i go hang with my friends me & bob end up fighting or me and my friend start fighting because of Bob.
Now Bob says im treating him badly or Whatever.
What do I do to fix my relationship with Bob & my friends??
Any help is appriecated greatly.
Sorry for any mistakes in this im in a hurry.

hey! im very sorry to say this but i sort of think you should break up with Bob. i know that right now, he probly means a lot to you and you really like him adn would hate to see him go, however you will find a new guy that you and your firends both like. because i know people always so dont listen to what your friends say, its what you think that matters. and that's great advice and all, however, you chose your friends for a reason. because they were nice, you liked them, and you trust them. so, if you trust your friends and they hate your boyfriend. they probly hate him for a reason. and also, you dont want to get in fights with your friends over your boyfriend, because in the end. your friends will be much more important to you than the one boyfriend you have now ever will be.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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any tips on dealing with an annoying friend who talks, no brags, waaay too much, but who you cant really be mean to because shes really nice, but she just cant take a hint when to shut up? plz, any advice is welcome!

Hey! i have a friend who was the exact same way! she would bug me and alllllll of my friends with it. One day when we were talking online she finaly drove me way over the edge bragging about making our school play. What i did was calmly tell her, "That's soo great that you _______, and really i am very happy for you. But sometimes you might want to tone down about what youre talking to me, and the girls about, because yeah, were happy for you! and we defenitly want to hear about it! but sometimes it can come across as bragging, and we know you dont mean it to be that way, but sometimes it does, please don't take this the wrong way, but i just wanted to let you know" thats a good way to put it because it lets her know that you love and care about her and her accomplisments, but also lets her know that she needs to tone it down a bit.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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