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Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him (link)
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you should tell her that you are sorry and tell her not to be gelis and she should nt be like that.
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Hey. This is gonna be long,but i really need help. Okay, I live, in Italy. i only have 4 close friends at this school, and I just joined there this year. Okay well, one of my friends, she's the bold bitchy type. I'm a shy type person ever since i moved here. Earlier up until about a month or two ago, we were good friends, we used to get along. Recently we've been having tons of arguments, and she's ALWAYS criticizing me, like, tellin me, dont say that,that's weird,blah blah. Or change ur MSN nickname, i dont like it.I've tried talking to her about it, telling her how it is. It doesn't help. We get into more and more arguments day after day. Even just now she was asking me something and i decided to give her the real answer. So i said,"well u criticize me a lo, balah,blah. And all that. And she said stuff about me. That I'm really annoying, how i'm timid and blah blah. I asked her why we get into arguments so much recently. And she said that im not reallly her type. shes never had a shy friend like me before. Blah, blah...and so i started telling her how she is, kind of. And i was like no offense again and agian...so she wouldnt take any, even though i knew she would, it was all i could do on my part. And then shes like"STOP SAYING NO OFFENSE I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST A PHASE BUT NOW I KNOW ITS NOT BLAH BLAH" I hate her. She's always saying shit about me. And then now she's like, i think we should just not be friends instead of being mad at each other 24/7. Well, i think so too, and i told her. And then She says i'm always deppressing...which i guess to some extent is true, because my home life is shit. My parents and my sis are always yelling at me, tlelling me to die and shit, and I yell back...so when im with them soemtimes i complain and am depressed. And i go to a rich school, and my friends are well off. But we are not. And she says that the reason the other people don't like me, now, is cause I'm boring and shy and im just quiet and dont go up to people so how i can i be open to new friends. I'm uncomfortable, i cant just go up to them. She says i should b more fun and crazy and the people think so too and then I'll make new friends. I can be a little more I guess, but not totally because my home life affects me. And my parents, i hate them. So what am i supposed to do about everything??? I'm only 13 and I wanna get out of this whole thing..die or move to a new place where I can be a new me with money and without parents. (link)
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you should just say that I am not wild and crazy like you want me to be so respect who I am.
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