well i think that she was really rude for not going to your sleepover after she already promised that she would go. i suggest that you try and talk things out with her without bringing up who was wrong or who was right. its nice that you apologized but i believe that a person should never have to apologize for feeling a certain way. if you got mad at her for what she did then i don't think that you should have to compromise your feelings. you should never apologize for who you are and what you feel. most especially if you aren't trully convinced that you are sorry. on the other hand, if you did say something mean or rude to her, then you should apologize. you've already done what you can. the ball is in her court. you can try approaching her again in a non-confrontational way and try to explain why you were upset and to allow her to state her side of the story. if your friend alyssa is a person who constantly lies and puts you down then you should consider all the reasons why you're friends with her in the first place. and if the reasons are no longer good enough, then consider this as a possible ending to a friendship. friendships should be about equality and respect and if those things aren't present in the friendship then maybe, just maybe the friendship isn't worth having. i'm not suggesting to give up but take some time to cool off and think things through. AND always remember that a friend is supposed to be someone who is honest, caring, respectful and loving towards you and if they aren't, they're probably not worth being your friend. hope that helped =)

There's a good site called www.myspace.com it has a lot of people from all over the world and its a good site to meet new people. its actually rated one of the top 10 sites used worldwide, coming at i believe #3 or 4 overall. you can easily find people from massachusettes. i don't know what kind of age group you were looking for but there is a wide range for ages starting at i believe 15. its a great, easy, free, fun site. enjoy!

there's no easy solution to this situation. when matters of the heart involve good friendships, things can inevitably get tricky. I for one, am a firm believer that sometimes best friends can make the best lovers but embarking on relationship with someone who knows you so well can sometimes lead to serious problems. what i suggest is that you think about it throughly and clearly for a long time before making a final decision. if he really is the best friend that you say he is, he shouldn't mind how long it takes for you to think this through. you first have to ask yourself whether or not you actually like him. if you do, think long and hard about whether or not you're willing to risk a great friendship. if you're really worried about ruining your friendship, talk with him about your concerns and try and find a way to ensure that a friendship will still continue even if you guys break up. all in all, just do what you think feels right and make you happy. good luck! =)

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