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what's there to know? i'm a sixteen year old girl from raytown mo.. i have long black hair.. and brown eyes.. i'm 5'10 and a half.. and i love ♥ music ♥.. feel free to ask me anything.. i'm a pretty knowledgeable person.. i know a lot about many things.. haha.. okay.

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ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.

Y'know, I'm in this same situation.

My friend and I don't even talk on the phone anymore. We used to be really tight, and then.. all of a sudden, it was no more!

It's hard to understand. I would say.. try and get to the bottom of it. I know that I never have with mine.

I don't want you to end up like that. Try and talk to him about it. Make sense of ya'lls situation.

-Hope it helps!
Hailie

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I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.

Its like She can have other friends but i cant


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It seems that your older friend might feel like she's being replaced by a newer friend.

It's easy to get that way, believe me.
She must feel that the only way to get your attention back, is to ignore you. Silence hurts worse than words.

Just try and talk to her. I know it's hard to, because if you are anything like me, you don't like to hurt anyone's feelings. Or cause any trouble for that matter.

-Hope it helps.
Keep your chin up!
-Hailie

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ok, so there are these 3 girls in my class,lets call them Briana, Frances and Diana. Now, briana and frances hate me and my friend rania A LOT. They pressured Diana into making a s/n, pretending to be rania to try to get the pw for my xanga so thyey could hack it. Now, diana broke down and told me and my friend it was her. Now, me and rania want to get Briana and Frances in a lot of trouble, we have all the evidence and proof that we need, but we can also get in trouble because of a s/n we created impersonating our friend. But we didnt try to hack anyone, it was just a harmless prank. So basically, my question is, is it worth it to get them in trouble and put ourselves at risk?
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Well,

I wouldn't think so. Revenge isn't something you can be.. "proud" of. I don't know what you can do. I mean, if what they did was illegal, yes.. you need to take the risk, even if ya'll get in trouble.

-Hope it helps.
--Good Luck, and God Bless
-Hailie

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This guy I like (A) was walking in front of me and his friend (B) passed him. A sort of half-grabbed, half-cupped B's butt cheek. B glanced behind and greeted A. A nodded at him and proceeded.
I sort of smack my friend's asses sometimes but I only see other -girls- doing this. I have never seen that happen before.
Now is this some sort of display of masculinity or something? Or is he attached to the friend>

I think it's more of a masculinity thing.

Guys slap other guys butts, girls do it too. It's just a .. 'thing' I suppose.
lol Don't be worried about it. Guys are like girls.. except..girls are a tad bit smarter! *wink*

Hope it helped.
God bless,
-Hailie

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Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so

1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me

2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)

3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.

4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.

5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.

6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.

7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that

8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party

9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.

10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)

11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..

12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know

13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?

thnx 4 your help

Well,

from what you have stated. I think it's very possible that this 'albert' character likes you.

You should really give it a try. It could work out for the best.

I would suggest throwing him the signs that maybe you like him as well. That might encourage him to move forward, and oh.. I don't know, as you out!

Good luck to you.
-Hailie

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