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I went out with this guy name josh for 3 months then we broke up. When he got a new girlfriend, we hated each other. We didnt even know each other, but just the fact that she went out with him i hated her adn she hated me because i used to go out with him. Well 2 weeks ago me adn cheyenne(his girlfriend) started talkin and became good friends. Well she wants me to go to the movies with her next weekend, but josh is gonna be there too. I still have feelings for him and me adn him dont talk that much anymore. So i think it would be really weird and uncomfortable going. She really wants me to go though. I do wanna go .. but when they start kissing i am gonna get sad and my face might get red or something. Should i still go? What all should i do?

just tell her that you cant because you have something like a sports game or family reunion, and plan a just girls movie date for later.

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Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think?

Beauty is everything.

Guys your age are still maturing and dont know what to look for in a girl. Dont worry, they'll catch up to you eventually.

Until then, dont worry about them. Ignore them and if thats a problem, come back for more advice.

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