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AIM: golightning418
Member Since: August 2, 2007
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i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me? (link)
The same thing happends to me, i swear. I just ignore her, and if she says somthing rude, then say thats not true, or, be quiet! lol, i hope this helps!


Long story short: One of my friends from grade school live with me and I really hate it. I had no choice in letting her move in, this was all done by my mother and sister. And don't get me wrong, I understand the fact that she doesn't exactly have the best home life, but she takes advantage of our family, our money, everything. Her name is Katie.

I have this best friend Samantha who knows that Katie is doing this to our family. Samantha was there for me a lot, I could cry it out and tell her how much Katie annoyed me and she understood.

But now it's different. Katie and Samantha have been hanging out and now Samantha feels bad for her . So now when I need to talk, I can't because the last time I did she was mad at told everyone that I'm mean to Katie!

So last night Samantha was talking bad on Katie and I was surprised. But I didn't say anything except nod my head and was totally confused.

then today she called my phone, asked for Katie, and invited HER to hang out. I'm really upset because she was just saying horrible things about her last night and now she wants to act like her friend?

So my question is:

1. Is Samantha a true friend? (be honest please)
2. Am I overreacting? (link)
You are NOT overreacting... Shes not a true friend if shes not there for you!




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