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I am a soccer player who is just trying to get through high school with good grades. I love soccer with a passion and have been playing since I was 5. I am currently single and love school. Someday I want to go into the medical field. :]

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so theres this guy i REALLY like. so we were on IM and talking about this new show NATIONAL BINGO NIGHT. well anyway, were having a contest, and i really want to do it!!!! PLEAASSEEE tell me where to get the bingo boards online! thanks!!

You can go to this website and print them out:

http://abc.go.com/primetime/nationalbingonight/index

Hope you bet him!! :]
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goaliegirl812

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hello
does anyone have any songs that are about freindship and knowing your always there for eachother?
i would like soemthing that is eather alteritive, or country.

hugs and kisses! thankssss =]

Here just a couple... or maybe about 50. U gotta have choices!! :]

1. Lean On Me - Bill Withers (or Club Nuveau)
2. You've Got a Friend - James Taylor
3. Bridge Over Troubled Water - Simon and Garfunkle
4. We're Going To Be Friends - The White Stripes
5. You're My Best Friend - Queen
6. Rubber Ducky - Ernie
7. Friends - Beach Boys
8. Graduation (Friends Forever) - Vitamin C
9. Stand By Me - Ben E. King
10. Walking on Sunshine - Katrina and the Waves

11. I'll Stand By You - The Pretenders
12. You Got A Friend In Me - Randy Newman
13. Memories - Barbara Striesand
14. I'll Be Around - Spinners
15. Thank You For Being a Friend - Andrew Gold
16. He Ain't Heavy He's My Brother - The Hollies
17. I'll Be There For You - The Rembrandts
18. With a Little Help From My Friends - Beatles
19. Kryptonite - 3 Doors Down
20. My One True Friend - Bette Midler
21. Old Friends - Everything But the Girl
22. My Best Friend - Tim McGraw
23. (Ya Gotta Have) Friends - Bette Midler
24. Thank You - Dido
25. My Friend - Blessed Union of Souls
26. You've Got A Friend in Me - Randy Newman
27. Ben - Michael Jackson
28. Anytime You Need A Friend - Mariah Carey
29. Friends - Elton John

30. In My Life - Beatles
31. Cool - Gwen Stefani
32. I Turn To You - Christina Aguillera
33. Wind Beneath My Wings -by Bette Midler
34. I'd Do Anything - Oliver Soundtrack
35. I Will Come To You - Hanson
36. I'll Remember - Madonna
37. Anchorage - Michelle Shocked
38. Thank You - Dido
39. Forever Friends - Sandi Patti
40. Friends Forever - Thunderbugs
41. Photograph - Nickleback
42. Best Friend - Aqua
43. We're All In This Together - High School Musical cast
44. Best Friend - SCLUB 7
45. Welcome Back - John Sebastian
46. Kind and Generous - Natalie Merchant
47. Best Friend - 50 Cent & Olivia
48. What A Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
49. I'm Your Friend - Bobby Brown
50. Wish You Were Here - Pink Floyd

Hope this helps.
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I accidently hurt my friend's feelings over a picture I head on my cell phone. When I showed it to 3 people she sent me a text saying "Why the f*#$ do you have a picture of me on your phone?" and she has hated me ever since. I have tried to apologize many times but all she has ever said is why do you want to be my friend so bad and that's just plain wierd. She is a 15 year old Sophmore and I am a freshman at high school. I see her as somewhat of what I want to be, a great soccer player. She has made Varsity since freshman year and I just want to be as good as her. I dream about my mistake every night and that it becomes fixed, but when I wake up it is only a memory of what I want. Should I just forget about her(even though I see her twice a day and it's hard to do) or should I try something new to get her back?

Look, the first and most important thing you need to do is to stop wanting to be HER. You are your own person, and whatever you may think right now, you are just as special as her. This will come in handy the next time you face a rejection.

Forgetting a friend is not an option. I hurt my best friend (and subsequently lost her) in 3rd grade, and I still feel bad about it. You just learn to live with your mistake, and you go on with your life. That doesn't mean that you forget her, but you must realize that some people can't forget certain hurts, no matter how much you want them too, even if you weren't trying to hurt her. You too, will someday find(if you have not already) that you are unable to completely forget a hurt.

And hearing this probably will hurt, but it's possible that she might have thought of you as an acquaintance, and not so much of a friend. This could be why she's asking why you want to be her friend so badly.

So what should you do? Well, it seems to me that you've done everything you CAN do. Therefore, the situation is no longer in your hands. You have made the first move to try to mend the situation, but the next move MUST be her's. Any relationship, be it personal or not, has to be a "Two-Way Street." You made a mistake, and you've apologized. It's now up to HER. If she refuses to forgive and be friends again, then unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it. You'll just have to accept that fact and move on.

But because you must still have contact with her, treat her with respect and courtesy. You must be mature about this situation because if you keep dwelling about it every time you see her, anger and pain build up within you. That's how hate and resentment start, and they stay with you for years. Don't let that happen. They tear your very soul apart, and you end up feeling empty and alone. Being mature helps you to manage these feelings so that you grow to be a stronger person.

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