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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
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worried friend

hey worried friend,

it's never easy to face a friend, telling her that you DON'T like whut she's doing. But in the end it all comes to the same point, Something goes wrong, or she's a problem child, or she's full of regret... ect. ect. You need to tell her what you think about, but don't let her hurt you by telling you your such a loser, cause she really likes him and bla bla. If your not sure about this chase, You can always writhe something down, then read it and think about what you need to say to hear, but you do need to realise this is very bad what she's doing, you need to speak your hart out and tell her everything that you don't like about it, She might like it, or she doesn't , But if you two are really bestfriends, she'll respect your opinion and stuff. If she handels it wrong and get angry, realise it's not your fault, it's hers, And you've done what a bestfriend should have done. Your only trying to protect her and that's good. Keep your head up, all things will come to an end sooner or later.

Good luck with it!

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