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Q: my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem?

Well First you hae to convince yourself that you don't ike them anymore and you really just need to get a new boyfriend that isn't just gonna go out with someone as soon as he breaks up with u.You also need to talk to this girl!!
HerE 4 U!!,
Erin(fargo)
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Q: Okay so basically this summer i got in a fight with all my friends and now i only have one friend which is my best friend. but i want more friends for school. how do i make friends??
I want friends that i can relate stuff too.
please help ill lovee youu forever like seriously

At school this year try to join clubs or something to see if there is anyone who likes tha same stuff you do.You could also just try ging to sit by someone or saying hi or asking them to study with you and then get to know them better and if you like them a lot then you can be friends.
Here 4 U,
Erin(fargo)
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Q: I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore?

first off you need to tell this friend thatshe needs to stop talking about your other friends and if it dosen't work then you need to get a new friend.I know telling this to her face is kind of hard but if you can text or im or e mail her it will be a lot easier!!
~Erin(fargo)
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Q: When I lived with my mom I lived with my grandma also.Well I had A friend who was A guy and I never realy noticed he was crushing on me until someone said something. But I still doubted it until he asked me out. After he did I ran like heck away and began avoiding him. I didnt know how to tell him how I felt. That I didnt like him like that. So one night while I lie in bed I decided the next Monday I would tell him. But durring the weekend my dad got custody of me and my younger brother. My dad hates my grandma so when I moved to my dads he said I could never talk to the kids from there again.But now my guy friend keeps appearing in my dreams. How can I make it stop? please respond ASAP every day without a solution brings another horrible dream! Oh Im a 13 year old girl (12 at the time it happened)(I moved to my dads in March my birthdays in May)

Well ask your dad if you can go to a friends house and then try to call your grandmaw or the guy if you already have his number and tell him how you feel.If you can't do that then i strongly suggest that you pray.
~Erin(fargo)
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