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well, me and my guy friend are like, WOAH close. we tell each other everything and are very open and .. well, you know, the whole shabang.

the thing is, his friend (who is also my friend) tells me that he wants to hook up with me...but as like, friends w/ benefits. not go out or anything. and i kind of see why he would want this instead of a relationship, because it might mess up the friendship if we broke up and what not.

but like, still, friends with benefits could screw things up too.

but on the other hand, we're SOOOO close, that fooling around might not be that big of a deal. like we're so comfortable around each other...and i don't think i would have any problem doing stuff with him.

i really like him - always have and probably always will. i don't think he likes me back, cuz i'm pretty sure he just sees me as like his best friend.

so my question is...should i have benefits with him? or just leave our friendship the way it is.

sorry this was really long...

-someone you know - tehe =]

hey, i think if your gonna get involved with this person at all yall need to be a couple not friends with benefits. If your friendship is as good as you say it is than you shouldnt have to worry about it messing up your friendship. im not saying you should leave ur friendship as it is but u shouldnt do anything if yall arn't togrether. hope i helped

Brandon

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