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hello, my names louise and im 13. i recently went on holiday with my best friend and her brother, whose friend who is two years older than me came for 3 days. as soon as i saw him i really liked him. his not the best looking boy ever but he is sweet and caring. we held hands alot and at night we slept in the front room with my friend and he had his arm round me and we kissed a few times. he knew that when he went away i would really miss him and he said he would miss me too.
since he went ive asked for his number on numberous occassions but he doesnt reply. ive spoken to him over facebook but he doesnt seem to care. if i message him he will either reply with about a sentence or ignore it. i asked whether he was free in the next two weeks because i really miss him but he didnt reply.
i really want his number so i can try and talk to him more. ive cried because all i want it to be able to see him. but for starters he doesnt know how i feel about him because i never told him when i had the chance. and secondly he lives about 50 minutes from me.
i REALLY love him. and i dont know what ive done wrong for him to ignore me like this.
thankyou x (link)
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I don't want to be the bearer of bad news...but hun, He's Just Not That Into You. Throughout your life you're going to have the ups and downs of boys...you're only 13, and well it might've been fun hanging out with this guy for a few days but when you say he's 2 years older than you and you REALLY love him, you don't. You knew him for 3 days, and I know it happens in the movies, where you know a boy for moments and he's "the one" but in real life it doesn't happen like that. In the real world you need time to develop a good relationship and a strong love connection like that. I know it might seem confusing and hard to believe now, but trust me you'll understand in a year or two.
Back to the fact of this boy, I don't mean to bring you down, but it's best you know the truth of what he was probably thinking when he met you. He was probably thinking something along the lines of "Oh, a new younger girl I'll probably never see again...she's kinda cute (cute enough..for a few days)" Since you were younger he probably knew he'd easily be able to get involved with you. But never intentionally wanted to start a relationship or anything with you. He most likely just wanted a fling for the 3 days he was with you all, especially since he was in an unknown area and knew no other girls.
On the bright side, you've done absolutely NOTHING wrong. You just fell into the arms of a jerk boy. It's okay, it'll probably happen more than once. But it's good you're gaining this experience now. The best thing for you to do, is to forget about him, and try not to talk to him or talk about him. It's no big deal, you're going to find many other guys you're going to really really like, probably a lot more than you think you like this boy.
I know a lot of this probably hurt to hear, but it's good to know. I hope this helps, good luck!
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