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lately the friends ive been hangin out with for like a year have been gettin on my nerves. i mean like my x best friend is now like the person i most avoid because of how annoyin she has become, or was she always that way and i never noticed till now.all these ppl that i thought id be friends with for like ever, are now very annoying and i jsut dont want to have anything to do with em. i want to go and make new friends but does that make me a bad peron for ditchin em for other ppl? (link)
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This could mean you are maturing a little bit quicker or that your interests are changing. Definately broaden your horizons with some new friends, but it's always great to keep the old ones around. Never burn a bridge you might need to cross in the future. Just distance yourself a little bit for now and make some new friends. As time passes you may want some of those "ex-best friends" around.
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obviously i have a problem
my best friend has sides that i just cant stand.
I love her to death and i would jump in for a bullet for her.
But she can get on my nerves.
Shes the jelous type;
We hang out alllllll the time and when were not hanging out, were on the phone.
Lets say i have this other friend ... Sally
and i start to talk to her on the phone too,
and here is Susie ( my jelous best friend) saying " Ohh go be buddy buddy with her" Now what am i supposed to say to that. Like, she doesnt want me to talk to anyone else but her. Its like were a couple ha wow its sad and the same time sick.. But yeah , also she gets mad at anything little thing. shes a biggg drama starter. Like she'll get mad at these little jokes i make. Like she can make , you know make fun of in a joking kind of way, but i cant. Does that make sence?
For example the other day she got mad because i didnt pick up the phone for her!? well i was on the other line??? And honestly, i was too lazy to get up and switch over, by the way i didnt even know it was her on the other line.
My piont is, How do i get it out to her that she has to let me be. like in a nice way that wont get her become the next godzilla.
Also how do i tell her that she complains about the most useless stuff, too?
In a nice way too.
... I hope this makes sence.
wow.
well thanks for reading.
mucho appreciated (link)
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Well, first you need to sit down and have a serious talk with your friend. You need to tell her how you are feeling. She needs to understand that you should be able to have other friends. Encourage her to make new friends too. If she can't grasp that, she obviously needs to grow up a little bit until she's ready to realize what friendship is about. I wouldn't approach her with the "too much drama" thing at the same time, just let her know that there are more important things to get upset about, and that she should focus on the positive. Hope this helps, and good luck!!! :-D
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