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I'm elmo! I'm a 15-year-old girl from manhattan, and I like to help people!
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Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!
plz help me!
My friend has tried to kill herself a number of times and ended up in the hospital. Time is of the essence, trust me. If this person actually wants to kill themself they are unstable and need to be in therapy, or admitted to a hospital immidiatley. You have a responsibility to inform her parents of what she tried to do. You can not take ANY chances with this.
I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"
Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough.
Do not let them feel bad about yourself,because you're at college and their not. You shouldn't have to come home every weekend to see old friends, they should be able to accept that you're away. I think it's good that you are making new friends and having a good time at college.
A friend of mine is getting married in a few months, and all she talks about is her freaking wedding. She's so annoying I just want to smack her. Some of our other friends feel the same way, others are all into this wanting to help plan and decorate and buy pretty white crap that I can't get excited about at all, because I'm just not a pretty white crap kinda girl.
She used to be so cool and normal, we'd talk about what was going on in the world, fun weekend activities, etc. Now she's wedding 24/7. What's wrong with her? How do I shake her out of cinderella land and get my friend back?
Well talk to your friend about the problems you're having, but if it were me, I'd just suck it up because it is her wedding. Besides in a few months you'll have your friend back!