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hey every one i am in 9th grade and i am 14 and i love to write and draw paint and things like that i am artistic and loving i love to horse back ride and i love to horse around with my friends i am energetic but serious when i need to be i am always here if you need to talk or ask a question but if you dont want the whole world to see your question i/m me at MyGlisteningTear and that is for aim
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Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.

Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.

What should I do?

I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.

But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.

Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?

I'm so confused...

What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.
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hey i know you you sleep over my house and my advice is that you just tell them your situation


I'm 16. I "went out" with a guy (now 17) two years ago and he really really hurt me. He led me on for a year, finally asked me out, and then never went anywhere with me. I embarassed him (by wearing my knee brace in gym class) and he dumped me BY EMAIL three weeks after he asked me out. It hurt so bad because not only did I waste a year of my life on him, we were friends before that.

Everytime I tried to talk to him afterwards, he would turn the tables and place all the blame on me. I can't get over my anger on him. I never talk to him, never look at him, and generally in day-to-day contact pretend he doesn't exist. I feel bad sometimes because we had a great friendship before, but I can't trust him anymore.

I'm fine not having him in my life, but holding this grudge has made me more hateful and I feel like I'm the worse person because of it. I never was upfront with him to his face about how much I can't stand him, because I fear confrontation. What can I do to let this go? How can I move on? (link)
First of all you are not the worst person in the world trust me i have basicly the same problem with my friend but really the only thing i could say is mending the heart takes time i know you probly dont want to hear that but it is true as for the confronting part i would go up to him with a bunch of friends and have them help you along i always find going in a group is more supporting then by yourself because they will make you do it and by yourself you can easly walk away but with freinds you can go full force.




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