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I'm making this short & sweet & not dragging it out like many other advicenators. I'm here to help you, but if you start complaining about your life then I will tell you how immature you sound because complaining means your weak, & I'm positive there is someone out there going through more than you. Don't like my attitude? There's an [x] button on the top right corner of the screen - it's there for a reason; so use it.

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WEll ok my best friend is a girl and we have been through alot together and i really love her and dont want anything to happen to her and ill make sure that nothing does however, theres a problem she likes to get around and have fun with guys and it hurts/ pisses me off...by the way i dont like her more than a friends...she gives them head,let them finger her, and fucks them and im afraid one time somethings going to go wrong and she going to get pregnant...i want to convice her she dont need it but she just laughs at me and goes and does it anyway such as right now shes fucking a friend of mine in my basement...i dont no what to do...i want to tell her how i feel and also get her to stop!! Anythign in helpful! Thanks


You're such a great friend! Wow, she's lucky to have you. Give her one more chance to talk it out. Prepare a speech about pregnancy and AIDS and stuff without making it TOO boring, and give some facts, and if she laughs in your face, she doesn't deserve your time. You're obviously trying hard to make her stop, but I don't think you will be able to control her actions. The only way she IS gonna learn is if she gets an STD or even worse, gets pregnant. I think it would be a good thing if she got pregnant, because that's the ultimate and best way she's gonna learn that she's screwing up her life. Telling her to stop will probably only make her do more. If something bad happens like pregnancy, she might for once learn from her mistake. Just give her another chance, and please, if she doesn't listen, let her suffer. I know she's your best friend, but you shouldn't have to spend all your time trying to help her out. If she won't listen, it's her problem not yours.

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so i have a problem. i can never hold a conversation with a guy wheni talk to them on aim. it seems like we run outta things ot talk aobut. we go throught he suaul whats up and everything and then we just kinda fade out.

how do i keep the conversations going.??
any adivce is appreciated!


Yeah, it's hard to keep conversations going on AIM because you're not face to face with the person. I'd say that you should ask a guy to hang out so when you go on AIM the next day, you guys have stuff to talk about. If you see a movie you can talk about a movie, or if you like make an inside joke you can laugh about it & stuff. If that's not gonna work for you, just ask him about his day & ask him like what his favorite songs are, favorite movies, food, & just random stuff. Tell him you wanna get to know him more. You could also send him a funny video on youtube & make jokes about it. Just don't be boring because chances are, if you're boring too long, he'll stop talking to you.

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