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Hey everyone my 14th birthday is coming up and i want to have a party. See, it's ust going to be one of my closse girld friends..about 6 and i was thinking about renting a limo or something and going into the city...but im not sure. What are some good ideas. I like about 40 min from phily and 2 hour from new york city if that helps.... if u got any good ideas please tell! (link)
well, for my 13th b-day, my mom drove me and 10 good freinds to new york, and we went to one of those mini shows, like $10 a person, then we bought ice cream and walked around china town. you could bring your freinds to a restaurant and than just windowshop or something. for my freinds b-day, she invited like 15 people to a russian restaurant, bazaar in new jersey, where they ate food and had a danse floor. it was so much fun and nobody wanted. you should end your party with a sleepover. hope i helped!


hey - does anyone have any cute ideas for xmas presents? i have literally no money, maybe twenty bucks total for like thirty presents. help!! homemade scarves? a long list would be nice, preferrably not food. and nothing that looks cheap. ahhh! thankssssss (link)
you can get really cute dangly earings in sets with three for a dollar in the dollar store. Party city has cute bracelets in packs. if you are set on it being homemade, you can buy a kit of beads, string, and instruction manual in costco and borders and barnes and nobles for like ten bucks. in amazing savings you can buy girly picture frames in under a dollar - if you do you should stick a photo of you guys in it. when your mom goes to all of her places like marshals and loemans and odd jobs, go and maybe you'll find something.
-hope i helped!


well .. i'm doing my x-mas shopping and i want to get a friend of mine a really really REALLY good gift .. something kind of like a scrapbook .. but i don't have very many good ideas .. anyone have any suggestions?
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you could get her a slideshow of pictures and inside jokes. just save it on a disk and play it on the computer. i think that the scrapbook is a really cute idea. my my bffs b-day, me and a few girls made a board games of her life. it was a peice of cardboard with colorful squares. depending on which on you landed on, you got a different ques about the b-day girl. no matter what you do, your freind will apreciate it if it is done by hand.
-hope i helped!


I'm 14/f. I have a dozen good friends, and I need to find cute gifts to get them all for Christmas. They're all girls, and I'd appreciate some cute ideas or something (preferably 15 bucks or under per gift). If anybody has any ideas, like how to wrap the gifts or what I should give them, then let me know. They're all normal girls who like girly things, just to give you an idea of what I'm looking for. Fives for all who respond. (link)
if they are good freind you could get them freindship bracelets or ankelets. makeup and clothes are cute.


ok so 2 of my best friends are mad at me because i keep hanging out with my best guy friend. The one friend told my friend melanie that i always talk about him and the only person i ever hang out with is him and i dont care about anything else but him. And that's not true. Am i doing anything wrong by spending so much time with him? (link)
your freinds are jelous of your having a boyfreind. and they are hurt because you dont have as much time to spend w/ them.
hope i helped. o_o


Okay..Theres this girl...her name is Chelsea..and shes 15 (like me). Okay..so in the begining of the year..i met Chelsea..and everything was cool. But now, shes like, been making me mad. Shes wayy wayy too clingy and stuff. I tried to hint to her that shes annoying before..but it just didnt work. Ugh. How could i tell her that i dont like her..and that shes annoying without straight out telling her that?? Thanks..i rate high for good advice!! (link)
i have a 'freind' like that. she is really annoying+clingy. shre borrows money and never pays u back, but everyone hates her, and i feel sad for her so i hang out with her. i tried everything, but it didn't work. she stopped following me when i told her to fuck off. if chelsea is anything like that, than telling her straight out is the only way to go.


Okay, I'm a pretty preppy girl. I have lots of friends, and we all are into fashion, and dressing our best. Anyway, I have a secret love, that's so far from fashion I'm afraid my friends will hate me for it. It's skateboarding. I loove skateboarding so much, and I always go skateboarding after school with all the skaters at the park and stuff. It makes me happy, I love learning new tricks, and doing all that guyish stuff. It's so weird, but I feel like I can't tell my friends. Well, now they're all getting curious about why I don't have as much time to hang out with them..and I'm starting to run out of excuses. I've only told one of my friends (whom I'm actually not that great of friends with, someone whose 'out' of my group and in a 'less known' group, but she's wonderful) who I never really thought much of, until I learned she can keep my secret. She's such a great friend, and I'm wondering why I feel like I can't tell my other 'friends' about my secret passion for skateboarding. What am I to do? Should I just come out and tell them I like skateboarding? (I don't think that any of them will take this badly, but sometimes girls can be really.. picky about things, and some of my 'friends' may ditch me because of this) Find new friends? Only tell some of them? Aghh, help!!

SAM♥ (link)
tell them, but if they ditch u it means that theyre not your freinds.


okay so one of my friends im not too close with her but shes always had a crush on my BF. well i honestly dont kno if she still does but i kno she would talk about him alot last year and she always liked him. and this year she has been flirting alot with him ever since we've been goin out. and she acts all giggley and blushy and all that around him. or when we talk about him. how can i get her to stay away from him with out being mean? because i dont want to lose her as a friend (link)
if she's going after your bf than she's not a real freind.


SO ONE FRIDay i was playing around with my bff's and on propse i opned that the bathroom door on one of them 9 don't ask me why i did it) & it was kinda funny, so i laughed. then i went to the bathroom and they diched me. it didn't make me mad cause thy do it all te time. i figued they were mad & figured that they would be over it by monay.they didn't. today is friday that was a week ago. i tried to write an apoige letter before i sent it she sent me a letter. it was really mean the called me a "no longerer" & cused me out.so someone went an talked to them & told them that wrote a letter but didn't send it( do u blame me) so they she worte me another letter saying they didn't want to be mad and sayed should apoliged at the beginning not know. so i still haven't sent the letter yet & i don't do. i'm really hurt & want to be their frirnd agian. they are some of their best friends i have ever had so what should i do any body have an idea please help, ask your friends,I'm desprite!!!!!
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Dont send the letter- talk to them seperately and face to face. They were probably talking to each other about your faults behind your back. and try to be nicer.


Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends? (link)
You should go out with him, and see how he acts. if he stops acting like a freind into acting like someone who makes you uncomfortable break up with him. It may take him a while to get over you, but eventually you will be regular freinds again.
- good luck




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