Well .. im 15 and ive been threw alota shyt so far in my life.. not everything but alot from family problems to friends and love life.. If you have a question I'll try my best to give you the best advice I can.. I like to play cs lol.. um i like to play sports watch sports go tanning..shopping and chyll with my friends..
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okay heres the story. my best friend cut really bad at the end of 7th grade(were in 8th now) and over that summer. the school, both friends and the administration, was aware but she never really got any kind of help. seh always carved peoples names who had hurt her or someone who was really important to her. okay this has to coem out to. shes bi so these people are girls. one was a best friend who stopped being friends with her another was a girlfriend and one is an x girlfriend. okay sorry that was kind of irrelevent. but anyway she got a lot better after this girl broke her heart. (i know you would think she would get worse) anyway she only cut maybe three times the whole school year. i stopped really worrying about it. but then in the past week she did it really bad. only me and this other girl who cuts too knows about it. before i always could see how unhappy my best friend was but this time i couldnt really understand. nothing really drastic happened and she seemed to be doing a lot better in recent months. okay heres my dilema. she siad not to tell anyone and if i did she would know it was me and not talk to me again or at least be extremely pissed. and i know shes not lying no matter how much i mean to her. now i want to get her help but i dont know how. i dont know if she can be helped with the additude she has now.
so: do i speak up and if so who should i tell?
what would be the best help to get her?
please give me any ideas. im open to anything. and dont waste youre time if youre going to be an ignorant a** like some people on this thing.
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well i had this same problem.. i cut and it would be really bad and when someone cuts it is really hard for you to except the fact that you need help.. but i ahd wrote a note to my friends saying how i was killing my self adn everything and they knew i cut but enevr really worried about it.. that days later on i got called down to the cudence office ( i was in 7th grade too) and my friends had gone and showed them the note i was so pissed off at them and wanted to ruin my friendship with them adn never talk to them again but then i woke up and relized that they were ym true riends by trying to help me.. i got help for it all and im better off now.. i think you should tell someone she mite be mad at you for a little while but you could seriously be saving her life.
hope this helps.
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