Hey everybody! Over the last few months all my friends seem to come to me for advice hehe so i thought why not share my advice with everyone lol! Welp just leave me your questions and i will try to help you as much as possible :D
*catherine*
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My friend is continuing to hurt herself. When I was on the phone with her last night she cut herself about eight times. I don't know what to do she has done this repeatedly and i'm afraid she is really going to hurt herself. What can I do or what should I say? (link)
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o goodness! this is a subject that i really feel strongly about i guess you could say! Try talking to her about anything/everything that is bothering her!...tell her that no matter how stressed or sad she might be that cutting herself isent going to solve anything! let her know that she can talk to you aobut anything instead of resorting to that. If she dosent quit then you need to talk to an adult and get her help@...cutting is a serious problem tht sometimes needs medical attention if it gets to bad. Before you tell an adult though make sure that she really is doing it, not just sayin that she is...sometimes people will say that they are doing those kinds of things because they want attention and they feel that they have no other way to go..so just talk 2 her and let her know that ure there for her! good luck hope everything gets better
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ok so i have this friend who is completely in love with her boyfriend but friday he had a party adn she kissed two other guys. yeah it was jsut on the cheek but if i were her boyfriend i would be pissed and i think it really bothers him thta this crap happens. i want to be able to get it through to her that she doesnt always need to be the center of attention and that she needs to treat her guy better but i dont know how to do that! kno of any ways to get that through to her? (link)
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Well i guess there is 2 ways to approach this situation:
1.) Leave it alone and let the couple deal with it
2.)Explain to your friend {alone} that since she is your friend you dont want to see her or her boyfriend get hurt. Tell her that by doing things like that she is running the risk of gettin called names {whore and other things} and you kno that she is not that at all and dont want to see her become labled as that. Tell her that she is really hurting her boyfriend and that it isent fair to him for her to be doing those things! good luck :D
*catherine21*
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So one of my friends and I have everynight been exercising and trying to eat healthy.
And its finally starting to show in our abs, that we've been doing crunches and ab workouts.
My other friend whos not exactly in shape, always tells us negative things abotu what were doing, its like she acts like she doesnt want us to lose weight?
I think she might be jealous, but still, she can exercise and stuff too right?
What do you think is going on? (link)
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Your friend may be upset that you and your other friend didnt invite her to do the "workout sessions" with you all...she probobly feels a little left out.
Tell her that excercing can be fun if you make it. All 3 of you should get together turn up the music, talk about random things, and EXCERCISE! really it can be fun hehe!...Ocasioanlly my friends and i do those things..it acutally turns out to be better then goin to the movies or other things like that! :D happy excercsing :D
*catherine21*
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