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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her? (link)
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never forget about her. sit down and talk to her about it. Dont get defensive, just listen to her if she's getting upset. if she says she just needs to move on, tell her that you're there for her if she needs you. that way, she'll know that you're still her friend. sooner or later she'll need you to be there for her.
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okay my best friend is such a copy cat! and somtimes i cant take it anymore and get mad if she acts like me or anything like that because every time i tell her the guy i like she then says o yeah i like him too and then she wants to have the same things i have i mean she painted her room the same color as mine and got the same comforter as mine too!! and she totally acts like me and talks like me and trys to dress like me! what should i tell her ? cuz i love her like shes my sister and dont wanna make her hurt i just want her to stop being me plz help me! thanks! (link)
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have you tried confronting her about this? just sit down, and have a heart to heart. you dont have to tell her that you're sick of having a twin, just tell her that you're flattered by how she likes your style, but you'd appreciate it if she cooled down a bit. you could try offering to take her shopping for a style of her own. that way, she'll find clothes that fit her personality, and you can start being yourself again.
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