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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her? (link)
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never forget about her. sit down and talk to her about it. Dont get defensive, just listen to her if she's getting upset. if she says she just needs to move on, tell her that you're there for her if she needs you. that way, she'll know that you're still her friend. sooner or later she'll need you to be there for her.
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okay my best friend is such a copy cat! and somtimes i cant take it anymore and get mad if she acts like me or anything like that because every time i tell her the guy i like she then says o yeah i like him too and then she wants to have the same things i have i mean she painted her room the same color as mine and got the same comforter as mine too!! and she totally acts like me and talks like me and trys to dress like me! what should i tell her ? cuz i love her like shes my sister and dont wanna make her hurt i just want her to stop being me plz help me! thanks! (link)
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have you tried confronting her about this? just sit down, and have a heart to heart. you dont have to tell her that you're sick of having a twin, just tell her that you're flattered by how she likes your style, but you'd appreciate it if she cooled down a bit. you could try offering to take her shopping for a style of her own. that way, she'll find clothes that fit her personality, and you can start being yourself again.
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Ok, well my friends turned on me at the beginging of this year (7th grade)I have been hanging out with other peeps thati really like. Then all of a sudden this girl marissa imed me on aim and said that since i left they are now the most popular girls in school and i have no style! i to have style. maybe i have to have the RIGHT style. Should i go by what i think or be one of the crowd. and if it do need some "style tips" can any popular/cool 7th grade girls tell me wat would look good. i have brown hair with blonde highlights. i have blue eyes.i a kinda short. i mean, wat kind of clothes r in? am i doing my makeup right?
PLEASE HELP ME
JENNA (link)
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well if i were you, i would screw trying to be popular. they turned on you right? so whats the use trying to fit in with them if they're just going to do it again? figure out a style you like, not just what's in. but, if you feel like hurting your ankles wearing 6 inch pumps, go right ahead. personally, i would be much more comfortable in a pair of ballet flats. and i'm sure you would be much more comfortable being yourself than someone who isnt you at all.
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I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...? (link)
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hey, i've been in this situation before, have you tried writing out what's been going on in your life? for me, i have a journal i take everywhere with me.. just to write down poems and random thoughts i'm having.. then if any of it's negative, i try to refocus and see if i can change the situation and maybe fix the problem. It's good that you've realized that this has become a problem, many people are oblivious to that. keep up your progress
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