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last year i was the moast popular kid in school then after summer it crash landed. I need tips on how to get attention from the main popular groups. Please help!!! IF YOUR POPULAR PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU LIKE TO SEE I AM MALE! (link)
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look you dont want to be a part of these groups. i know for a fact that being outgoing, nice, and funny, is all you need to be really popular.. but not popular as in part of these groups, just popular with a lot of friends who all like you and aren't all in 1 group, or in other words DIVERSITY
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I was recently asked to attend a party a friend of mine is hosting. I would love to go hang out with my friend and meet new people. But there are a couple problems with this. I wont know anyone at all and Im not exactly a social butterfuly, my friend lives really far away, the party will be at night and Im not the best driver at night, and Im afraid since no one knows me I will be left out of conversations.
How can I politely say no? I want my friend to keep inviting me to do other things, but not this particular event.
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there is no way to politely reject the invite without lying, you could say you have other plans you've have for a long time and commited to them, and then suggest that you hang out a couple of days after the party to make up for it
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okay this guy send me an e-mail saying this.........
hey i want to ask u somthing but im not sure yet if i should ask u it.............
what does he want from me goshh i hate whenever he does this because it makes me wonder alot and its really bugging me and do you have any ideas what he
probably wants??? because i really want to know!!!.
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he either keeps wanting to ask you out.. or he isn't sure if he wants your advice on something for fear of what you might think
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My freind is on an un-healthy diet. She hasn't told my freinds and I but at lunch she only eats and apple AND she on this website she said she was on a diet. We are worried that she is not eating much. What should we say to her? Should we talk to her? (link)
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you need to talk to her in private and tell her the way she is trying to loose weight is SO wrong and tell her that there is a likely chance that it will do more wrong than good.. also encourage her to excersize with you and maybe advise healthy foods for her to eat.. but like i said make sure you talk to her in private with only people who care about her.. confronting her in front of everyone is a horrible idea
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okay well i have this friend and we have been freinds for like 3 years now (i mean we were like best friends) and last year her first year of middle school (same with me) she was on a diffrent team and so was i. and she started hanging out with people and completely changed all she would do was brag about them or be a bitch. but she had a fight with them and then was like crawling back to me and being "obsessed" with me. so now she found a new group of friends this year and completely changed, i mean shes still is nice to me and all and she isnt exacually obsessed with them its just that she acts diffrent and talk abouts them alot. i dont feel like where as close as we used to be and i havent hung out with outside of school with her for a couple months now. my question is do u think shes ganna get in a fight with these people to and start acting normal again or what? what shoudl i do too!?? ( i mean i still luv her to death a stuff) (link)
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i used to have a friend like that who was friends with people i didnt like but whenever she got into a fight with them she would come running back to me.... now most people would tell you "treat others the way you would like to be treated" this is not the case because when she comes back to obsessing over you, you cant enjoy it and go along with it, because deep down you know that she is going to go back to her friends. you are in 7th grade right? well i'm sure that next year the drama with your friend will have died down and she will decide who she really wants as her friends.
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I have a bunch of friends, but I feel like since I am not in the same classes as some of them, we are sort of drifting apart. We don't have that much in common anymore, and honestly I don't always have the best time when I occasionaly do stuff with them (I used to enjoy spending time with them alot). I don't want to deliberatley end any friendships, but I just don't know where they are going. Is it worth doing anything over? Also, I am kind of annoyed because I don't really have a specific group of friends. I know it is good that I am friendly with alot of different people, but I kind of long to have a group of friends like alot of people do. (For instance my sister & her 3 best friends are all 4 really close, and there are alot of other girls who have groups where they are all really close.) I know that's not necessary, but I am just wondering if there's anything I can do about this? Thanks! (link)
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well i have a best friend who i dont see very often but i also have a like 4 person "group".. drifting apart from friends is a normal thing to do and you and your friends are going to become very different people one way or another, the best thing you can do is stay the way you are and still be friends with lots of people rather than a little group. reconnecting with old friends you might not have much in common with anymore can be hard, but if you REALLY want to be friends with them again, you need to start talking to them again, in the hallways or at lunch.. even over AIM or myspace. whether you think so or not they probably will want to be friends with you again and will put in as much of an effort as you.
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Well, alot of the time, me and my mate get into these conversations about really simple things like whether you should wear moisturiser or not, or whether certain earrings look tarty, and i listen to what she has to say and everything, but she just has to be right all the time! She wont listen to me or my mates views, and it really annoys me, cos i try to talk, to say what i think about something and she says "God, will you stop going on about it" when shes the one whos been talking about it for ages, and if i say "But i'm just trying to say what i think", she cuts me off and starts telling me i'm really stressy! What do you think about it all? Do you think she is competitive, or what? What should i do? (link)
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she seems like she wants you all to be lemmings and follow what she says.. i think you need to let her know that its not okay to just yell at everyone else because they dont agree with her. also there might be some problems shes not telling anyone about maybe she has grown up with parents that only had 1 opinon on everything and never taught her that there will always be another answer to things
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