well i'm 15. i love music, football, and cowboys not the football team but the acutial southern guys. oh yea and i used to date advice for dummies . yeah you're jealous.
p.s. the pic of me ins't overly fab but its what i have for now. i promise i'm much cuter than that and will work on getting new pics asap.
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Ok, i have this friend, lets call her Jane. Jane used to be really friendly last year, and we were REALLY good friends. Now, we're still friends, but shes not very friendly anymore, she lies all the time, she steals away the guys i like, and shes just not the same Jane she used to be. What do i do? Do i tell her?
-Concerned Chick (link)
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absloutely tell her. sit down with her and talk about whta has changed. dont make her out to be the bad guy though and defenatly dont go all doctor hil on her but a nice friendly balance is good and if she doesnt understand or want to change than maybe shes not really your friend.
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Ok, so the deal is all of a sudden my friends have starting acting very rude to me. They do not invite me anywhere or call me for anything, I am the one who has to hunt them down if I want to hang out with them. I think this has happened because right now in the group I am the only one that has a boyfriend (3 years) there was another girl who had a boyfriend (for a year) but he broke up with her. So my situation is I am trying to spend time with my boyfriend and my friends and try to get 90's in school AND working every single day. My friends were fine at the beginning of school and all of a sudden they got mad at me for not inviting them to lunhc everyday (when my bf and I go on a date). They apparently are mad at me for other reasons to but won't tell me why. So I bascailly try and hangout with them feeling like an outsider and I don't know what to do. Last night we tried to go out and I wanted to drink but they were saying they needed another driver so I ended up driving... I was having a horrible time and we weren't getting into any parties and my friend was demanding I drive her all these places without asking so I said well some people have to pay for gas, and she actually sat there bitching at me because I asked for gas money (none of the other girls who drive ask for gas money, but I am the only one who actually owns a car and has to drive it everywhere i go, they all get rides) So like what should i do? I am soo mad at them for not telling me anything like If something bothers you shouldn't you confront that person so they can stop ? I have tried to talk to one of the girls and she said "i don't feel like talking about it" like what kind of response is that? My boyfriend is all stressed about it to because I will go over to his house crying because of my friends. (link)
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u know what i think babe...you need new friends. these people are shallow and they are using you. try hanging out with some of your boyfriends friends or join a club or a youth group or somthing but you deserve better than friends who will just use you and make you cry. you'll find some real friends soon i promise and you'll be so much happier. and hey if your from around mass i'll even be your friend. you seem like a nice enough chick.
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