hey yall if anyone has any questions i would love for you to ask me them! i know i just started my site but i was the advice columnist for my school paper so having it on the internet shouldn't be much different..... please do ask questions, i would really appreciate it! also, feel free to visit my quote site- www.xanga.com/xo_from_the_heart_ox thanks loves
lovelove, anne givings
Website: love from anne givings
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my best friend is moving to new zeland today she is 16 and really does not want to go. Her dad says she is not allowed to come back home to england till she is 18. What rights does she really have and could she come back before she # is 18.
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since she is a minor she has no real choice unless her parents are willing to let her stay with a grandparent or aunt or uncle or something; if her parents are getting a divore she could always stay with them. otherwise just write her and email her alot cause thats what i do with my old friends from other states and such.... although her dad says she cant come back, she could always try to earn money to fly to england one summer- you could even help her out!
hope i helped!!
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Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you. (link)
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okay so i dont think there are pills or things you can take.... you could always try having a little too much to drink ;) but i would suggest this: practice infront of your mom or dad, then practice infront of them and any siblings you have
then practice infront of friends
grow on how many people you say a speach infront of-- nobody is going to think youre a dork or anything if you just get it over with, but they will think youre weird if you just sit there all nervous- just dont worry cause you wont know these people in ten years! talk to somebody with leukemia nad they will tell you how udnimportant the next speach you give will be. just dont plan on runnign for prez!
hope i helped!!
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My friend, Holly. She use to be awesome. Were cousons. Now all she thinks about is being a hor. well at least she acts like one. Shes a bitch. What should I do to remind her shes my friend?
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ill rate high.
ill make fav columnist.
ill do anything but i need help!
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spend a day JUST with her. maybe shop or swim or play cards or whatever she likes to do that doesnt make her need to act like someone she isnt.
maybe make cookies for someone who moved in nearby (or just for yourselves!) remind her that she can have fun the way she used to and she doesnt need to be a slut to HAVE fun.
i hope i helped!
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my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
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you should definately help her if she needs a place to stay. if shes having family problems make sure her mother or somebody isnt gonna call up to your school or something looking for her, because that can just make her end up right back at home! trust me, she wont want to get pulled out of class to end up where she ran away from in the first place. but you should definately help her out. just do your best to keep outta trouble!
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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on? (link)
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its okay if she has other friends she likes to hang out with because you probably have other friends you like to hang out with too, but you should try inviting her to go shopping or something so you can talk and be around her. maybe she just doesnt have much to say, and you shouldnt be mad at her for not calling you unless she promised she would. if you still feel tension you ought to confront her about it! let her know you still want to be friends!
hope i helped!
anne givings
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hey i been friends with Ashely for about 6 years and we are best friends and we were going out to dinner and a movie with group of friends and i pick here up and i walk in and i show her cuting her self and her dad and mom was not home i dont want Ashely to get her or i know some times u can die from cutting your self do u think i should tell some one or just keep it to myself? (link)
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i think you need to talk to HER about it first and try to find out what the problem is. if she is upset for some reason you can try to help her fix it. if she is stubborn and does not want to talk about it you should tell an adult you trust or let her know you are going to tell an adult. That might let her know how much you care, and possibly even make her stop or tell an adult herself! but you sound like a great friend to care that much about her.
anne givings
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