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I have all these people, who i thought were friends but now are talking behind my back and being sooo mean. I dont know, but lately iv noticed iv been attacked by all these haters. How do i win the croud back if you know what i mean?
well first you have to find out what the eff is going on. then you have to find out who started it and find someway to make it backfire on them. hit them with their own shit. talk to the people and tell them that whatever the person said is untrue or that it never happend. figure it out and get back to me as... OY i guess
A guy i like likes this one girl. Everyone nos it. Hes my friend but i want to ask him out and i can't because he likes this girl and he'll never go out with anyone else. So now i have to live with that. i guess he should get the girl he likes better, then the girl thats his friend that -actually- likes him back. Because she doesn't really like him. I just don't no what i can do.
signed-Confused
I think you should ask him out anyway. he might like you too. and if he does and wants to get over the other girl he might try it. and things might work out. so go for it... it would be better to let him know that you like him anyway.
...I like this guy, but i think he only likes me as a friend, thats ok too. But i'm afrid to ask him out because i'm afraid of rejection because then he might never talk to me again. I asked out a guy once and he didn't talk to me for a few weeks. I don't want that to happen. i don't know what to do. please help.
dont let rejection scare you. if it doesn't go as planned... then theres nothing you can do but try harder or try someone else. if he does say no, then its not that big of a deal. wouldn't you rather tell him you like him and have him say no other then you never asking him out, therefore not letting him know you like him. because he might like you and you wont know. and that would just be a waste and a huge blow off when you find out. the other kid was just a loser. good luck.
i live in a neihgborhood w/ all guys and they are all my friends. but they always act like jackoffs when there around htere friends at school. they have huge egos sometimes!!!! they are my best friends but how do i deal w/ them!!!
well.. i guess you could tell them that. explain it. and if they dont stop being dicks you shouldn't really be friends.. i dont have much to say about that. ego's anger me
I'm the one whos friend ignores me around his other friends. Today i was talking to him with his friends and it was ok but then later he just butted me out. I don't think thats much of a friend, but i still want to be his friend i'm just not sure if he wants to be mine. Maybe i'm annoying him and i don't want to ask him cause it sounds stupid hey do u think i'm annoying, but thats just me. I'm not sure what i should do. I need advice.
It doesn't matter how random is could be. just ask him. but dont get all, "am i annoying??... HUH HUH?!?!?!" cause that is very annoying. if he asks why, just tell him to explain and you could work things out. if he thinks your a little, dont flip out, and dont try to ignore him. be normal. just.. try not to do whatever he says he has a problem with. but then again butting you out isn't so nice. think about if your sure that hes even worth the trouble. he might and might not be. dont let him take advantage of you or anything like that. lable yourself as you did this time. im sorry if im not helping very much. but if you want you can ask with more detail of the situation later on. good luck with him.
Andrew,
Iv had this friend for a while now. We got really close as only friends ( we wouldnt want it more) but something happened. I dont know, every since a couple months ago, we just started drifting apart. This friend is so important to me, and i could never live without them. They give me feedback when iv done wrong, and come to my rescue when im shut down, i couldnt survive without them, and im starting to fall apart because we have gotten so close to loosing our friendship. I love this friend, and i would do anything to let them know. How do i remove the space between our different lives, so that we are as close as we were at what seems so long ago?
Think about it. Be sure of this problem. You cant just have about a week of drifting because maybe hes just hanging with a few new people. just for a while though. so once hes as close with them as he is with you, he'll come back. he just wants to expand i soppose. trust me.. he will be back.
Andrew,
Iv had this friend for a while now. We got really close as only friends ( we wouldnt want it more) but something happened. I dont know, every since a couple months ago, we just started drifting apart. This friend is so important to me, and i could never live without them. They give me feedback when iv done wrong, and come to my rescue when im shut down, i couldnt survive without them, and im starting to fall apart because we have gotten so close to loosing our friendship. I love this friend, and i would do anything to let them know. How do i remove the space between our different lives, so that we are as close as we were at what seems so long ago?
Think about it. Be sure of this problem. You cant just have about a week of drifting because maybe hes just hanging with a few new people. just for a while though. so once hes as close with them as he is with you, he'll come back. he just wants to expand i soppose. trust me.. he will be back.
andrew...i have this friend, that i've known seens the 2nd grade. We were best friends, and now all she wants 2 do is b like me.She copys everything i do. Like, i got vans, then she got vans, but then i finally got adios. And i go 2 like hollister, american eagle, ambercrombie & fitch, now she goes there. I'm really annoyed with her doing that stuff. But now she is friends with some popluar girl, and now she weres these slutty clothes, and talks really stupid. How can i break it 2 her 2 tell her just 2 b herself?
talk to them about it. see whats going on.
I have a friend. its a guy. and when hes not around his friends hes really nice and when he is around his friends he pretneds i'm not there. or hes just rude. but i don't want him to be like that and i no i can't change him. is that just a guy thing? how do i get his attension? should i just leave him alone when hes with his friends, i mean i'm his friend too.
Well.. you dont want to get in the way. i dont really think its a "guy thing" but maybe the kid is like.. the 'follower' of his guy friend. so its okay if you try to talk to him every once and a while, but try not to do it too much. and yeah ur right, it is a little rude, but just keep trying. talk to him about it, WITHOUT any one around. you could try calling too, but dont feel embarraced. there is no reason too. so.. good luck, and if u need any more advice, leave another question but mark it so i can tell its you. keep trying!
theres this guy and i'm not sure if he really likes me. i mean were friends and all but i'm not positive he even cares about me cause he treats me like crap sometimes and sometimes hes nice and funny. i think he hates me now. he never really talks to me and i think its just cause we went out and i don't know what i should do. please help
well.. i dont exactly see what you want me to help you with. if you fill me in a little more i might have something to say... but one thing i can say. just because you guys broke up, doesn't mean he hates you. you dont really need to worry about that. if he does hate you he might have a reason, or its because u broke up. if its cause u broke up hes a loser and you shouldn't stick around him. sorry.
okay well i have this friend and he doesnt like my boyfriend that much, he says he will just hurt me and he never really tries to view things from my point of view. he likes this one gurl and stuff and i always tell him she will just break his heart over and over but he doesnt wanna listen, but he gets mad at me when i dont listen to him about my boyfriend....it gets me really mad sometimes and i feel like he thinks im wrong about this gurl he likes...i know im right but i dont know....what do you think?
i dont because i know him. i just dont trust him. i dotn know your point of view, thats why i never looked. thats not much of a question so i dont know how to answer you.