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OMG!! Listen i'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both girls. It's been 4 months that we have sexually been physical together. We don't get busy cause we don't like each other, but we don't wanna have risky sex and get rumors spread around by guys. When we see a hot guy and we are so horny we go for each other. We totally had a miss understanding about each other. She thought i liked her and i thought she was very changy in her moods of sex. One day i said to her that when we get sexually active on each other it's totally awesome to me cause it's kinky, i'm safe, and i'm doing it with someone i truely trust. These past 4 months she didn't wanna get busy or anything. When we talked that one day it was like i had to guess how she wanted things to be like. I was totally craving her so bad it wasn't even funny. I love sex and learning about it because it's straight up interesting to learn and do. I feel like i'm getting totally used by her. It's like every once in a blue damn moon i get to have sexual pleasure at her convience. It's always when her total crush at school doesn't notice her or when a guy that likes her is bothering her and she uses me as a comfort zone. When a guy asked her is she seeing someone else she quickly thought of me! At times she'd want to be affectionate and other times she'd be like "BACK UP!" Help me out what should i do about her mood swings. I'm horny and i don't wanna wait once in a blue moon any more!! Help Me!!! (link)
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Don't listen to what other people are saying, about being disgusting. I think that maybe your friend isn't sure about her sexuality, and doesn't want to 'be' with you sometimes, because she feels she isn't gay. Maybe you should just sit down and talk to her, and ask her what she wants. On the other hand, could someone have found out about you and your friend? Then maybe your friend feels insecure about doing anything with you anymore, because people have been teasing her (or something along those lines) about being disgusting. Don't push your friend to do things she doesn't want to do though. Good Luck!
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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do? (link)
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I think, although the past is over, that you should sit down and talk to your friend about it, and how you felt then and now. Explain to her that you still want to be friends with her, and that you still love her just as much, it's just you wanted to get it out in the open because it upsets you. If she is a real friend, of course she will understand this, and want to talk to you about it, to make sure your okay. However, I think when you decide to do this, it should be when perhaps you two have spent some quality time together, and it is just the two of you with no-one else around. (Also, face to face, not on AIM or MSN or on the phone). Hope it works out okay.
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