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Hey yooh quySz. Well mii name iis Ally Niichole. ii`m 16 yearSz old. ii have brown haiir. Blue eyeSz. 5'6". ii`m not telliinq mii weiiqht cause ii`m fat. Uhm, nethanq yooh need adviice on feel free to ask meh nethanq yooh need to nd ii`ll qiive yooh the best adviice ii qot.

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k well i have this friend kelly. and i don't really have fun with her, but somtimes i do. and when we're not having fun together, she's a bitch! she doesn't say anything at all and it sooo grouchy. then i have other friends, like dana, jessica, brittany, natalie, jamie, amber and a whole bunch more that i love hanging out with. but i sort of have to hang out with kelly because i'm going to the beach with her in the summertime for a week so i don't know what to do. i tried telling her how mean she is to me, but she forgets all about our talk after like a week. she's sucha bitch. but sometimes she does have s0o0o0o much fun with me, but that's only on a good day. i think i wanna try things like ignoring her whenever she's moody and see if that snaps her out of it but i don't know. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

loveeee - SeReNa

Well the onliie thiinq ii knoe to tell yooh iis just on a qood daii siit her down and tell her how yooh feel and how she treatSz yooh and that iif she keepSz on that yall just can`t be friiendSz because she hurtSz yooh alot.

ii hope ii helped =/
... ally *

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ok, i have this *friend*...ill just use her name. her name is Aliceson Osborne. one time when we didnt know each other, i just went up to her door and asked her to be my friend. so we became friends and starting hanging out and stuff and then all of a sudden, she starts being a huge brat and she will get mad at me for nothing! she even got mad at me for breathing wrong once, thats how bad she is! so, we got in a fight at least 1 or 2 times a week. so after our fight, she would call me like the next day, and say to call her back! so i would and she would be like, omq, im so sorry. but she never meant it b/c she would just get mad at me again the second we went to hangout. and so finally i had gotten fed up and said "ali, im tired of you treating me like a piece of dirt, saying things that i am not allowed to say back to you" and she just was like, "omq, your such a brat" when im not even the one who did anything! but anyway, now she's moving and should i forgive her this time or just try to avoid her? is she even worth my time? sorry this it kinda long =(.

ii really wouldn`t mess wiith her. iif she saiiSz the thiinqSz she saiiSz alla tha tiimeSz she does ii would not forqiive her. ii mean obviiously she meanSz most of iit ... But ii knoe iit miite be kiina hard cause ii knoe yooh prolliie thouqht of her as a best friiend, but trust meh, there are BETTER friiendSz out there than that !!

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ok so i have this best guy friend.. i'll call him C.. we started being bestfriends last year... and then he got a gf and she hates me... for no apparent reason...cept for the fact that he liked me before he liked her.?..yeaa stupid i know. well anyways we don't talk anymore and the other night we started talking again and he was saying how hes been dating her for a year but he keeps wondering if hes missed out on anything..and i was like well what do you think you missed out on and hes like you....i just wanna be able to hang out with my bestfriend again and get his gf to chill out about it....hmm what should i do?~

Well yooh can`t reeliie chanqe how she actSz or anythiinq but just liike qet to knoe her better or whatever and tell her that yooh don`t want to qo out wiith hiim yooh just want your best friiend back.

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ok one of my friends ima use names coz i think its easier....ok my friend alex nd i hae been BEST friends since 4th grade....
and me n kelly have been best friends since 6th
but now alex and kelly know each other and they r botjh pretty nd can dance nd stuff and i can dance sure nd im not so very hott but everyguy likes em nd its annoying thats part 1

now aprt 2 KELLY steals ALEX away from me and now i hate KELLY nd she keeps on aski n4 forgiveness but i say NO coz she's dun this many time after i forgave her 4 the same reason so ne ways ALEX tells KELLY everything NEVER calls me and ALEX really thinks kelly is awasome
and ALWAYS talks about things they did over the weekend or w/e

i dunno if i shud tell them how i feel ((left out nd sad)) or just keep on hatin on KELLY

what should i do =( please help me!

Yooh should tell them how yooh feel. iit`Sz alwaySz better to qet your feeliinqSz out and knoe yooh triied than to be a faulure and not try at all.

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What should I do when I like my friend that im with EVERY DAY and I donr think he likes me.... What should I do?

Tell hiim how yooh feel. iit`Sz worth a shot. ii mean just tell hiim yooh would liike to be " more than friiendSz " wiith hiim. iit`Sz worth a shot.

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Hey well lately, i've been real sad.. becasue like my friends mean the world to me but the past few days my bestest friend hasnt been acting herself around me lately.. like i mean she'd ALWAYS hug me like all the time and now she barely even says hi i dont know what i did ether ! like im a real mean person and i kno i am.. and i dont like it on bit.. so im asking how can i stop being so mean to people and why is my bestest friend actin like that to me? thanks if u can help me.. love ya lots x3 u give really good advice too !!

Well ii dono what to tell yooh about beiinq so mean cause ii am nd ii knoe ii am but liike, ii dono how to chanqe iit. ii reeliie don`t thiink there iis nethanq yooh can do except tell yourself NOT to be mean to people. Nd your best friiend prolliie iisn`t talkiinq because yooh`ve been mean to her or sumthen`. ii mean talk to her about iit. And ask her what yooh diid to make her not talk to yooh. ii hope ii helped =/. iif not just IM meh on AIM or yahoo nd we`ll talk bout iit more okaii ?
* Ally *

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My friend dresses like a guy and..idk i feel sometimes embarrased around her because shes so guyish and i know she can be really pretty but she just doesnt try what do i do?!?!

Well sometiimeSz lesbiianSz dresSz liike quySz or then aqaiin, tomboiiSz. But thereSz reeliie nothiinq yooh can do except tell her how pretty she iiSz nd eveverythiinq nd ii mean iif that dosen`t work then thereSz reeliie nothiinq yooh can do cause she`Sz qunna dresSz how she wantSz too.
- Hope ii helped =/
* Ally *

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sorry this might be long ill try to make it as short as i can..

well me and my ex friend have been friends for 10 years.. and i know ppl change but shes changed so much shes started sleeping with guys for drugs and is always calling me names like a "cunt" "bitch" "slut" and just anything she backstabes me alot and i cant trust her like i use to.. everyone tells me eveything she says about me and i belive it to.. the thing is about 2 weeks ago i finnaly got fed up with it all and i started treating her the same way she treated me and thought she got the hint i didnt want to be friends with her anymore.. but she didnt so a couple days later she showed up with my other 2 friend and this guy.. and me adn my freiends were in my kitchen and she comes out and is like "krystal" call mike and see if he can get us any alchol 2nite and i found out she slept with him and shes had sex wiht about 14 ppl (not exagerating) and shes in 9th grade and so i go "why amry to get laid again" tryin to be a bitch and she gives me this look and goes how did you know.. anyways so she finnaly figured out i didnt want to be her friend and weve had some fight so i just block ehr on aim and stuff just to get her out of my life bc i dont need her drama..but i feel like im throwing away 10 years of a friendship we had plans to move to cali when we were 17 and gratuated but not anymore.. should i try and be her friend again? or am i doing the right thing?.. thanks

Well beliieve iit or not ii thiink that`Sz the riite thiinq. Yooh shouldn`t qet cauqht up iin alla that stuff. That`Sz just qoiinq to put a bad iinfluiience on yooh. ii knoe iit may be hard to do that to your " best friiend " but sumwhere out there iis sumone who iis way better then that. ii knoe how yooh feel. The same thiinq has happend to meh wiith a qurl ii qrew up wiith nd ii knoe iit`Sz hard but thiinqSz happend nd sumtiimeSz we dono why. But iif yooh wanna talk about iit more just IM meh on AIM or yahoo nd ii`ll help yooh more. Hope ii helped =/
* ALly *

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I am having a problem with trusting one of my friends. She tells me she won't tell but then i hear about it from other people and there like "___ Said it" So i don't know what to do. cuz were like sisters me and her. And she tells me she isn't and idk what to be like.

Well, all ii can tell yooh iis just trust her. ii mean iif she iis your true friiend and everythiinq she wouldn`t liie to yooh. Nd other`Sz are prolliie just jelous of yallSz friiendshiip.

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