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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her?
im not telling u that u have 2 listen 2 me or ur friend, but it sounds to me that she might be rite. i am also very strong in my faith with god, and i am also trying, without much success 2 get people 2 believe like i do. now, i realize that sometimes i mite push 2 hard, but itz just so agrivating wen some1 u luv so0o much just wont listen 2 u about the most important thing in the universe. im not telling u how 2 live ur life or anything, but GOD is THE ONLY WAY!!! shes probably just terribly worried about u and just doesnt no how 2 get thro 2 u so she getz agrivated. ive been in that situation be4. just try 2 listen 2 her. wen u truly find jesus and accept him into ur heart, ul be very thankful.
~!LuCy!~
my bestfriend has a crush on this guy thats one year older then us and i think i like him too...b/c like every time im with him he turns me on somehow..i don't want to let my friend down but i don't think that boy even like my bff and i dun think he likes me ethier...wat do i do?
just see wat happens. if he doesnt like either of u then notin will happen. unless he asks one of yall out notin will happen. i fhtat happens, then talk 2 ur friend about how u feel and stuff. no offence, but it sounds to me like he wont be askin either of u out. if u want, u mite wanna tell, her that u like him 2. who nos, she mite not care at all and take it litely.
~according2lucy~
Hey*
I wrote in here on the 23rd... About my friend that hasnt tlked to me in a while and it seemed lyk she was just using me fro a guy I have be with! Her and her boyfriend broke up so there is no pressure there. I called her and asked her what was going on and she said she was jsut grounded and I didnt believe her but her mom told me she really was. Well, she says we are still friends and now she is ungrounded and we are hangin out. Thanks everybody fro ur help!!!
.:* Erika *:.
thatz great! it sounds like verythings goin great. if u think she mite be lyin to u about some things u mite wanna talk to her about that. it sounds like everything worked out great. maybe ur friend waz just goin thro a weird faze. COOOL! :)
~~according2lucy~~
PLZ RATE!
im going to my friends house 2morro and well the girl that owns the house i havent seen her ever since school ended!! shez my best friend!! but sumtimes my friendz think i act like a looser... i dont wunna look bad n act like a looser 2 so wut should i wear? my other best friend is coming and she alwayz thinks ima looser!! but she thinks that with alot of her best friendz were all so crazy!! lol. help!! =)
id wear one of ur nicests outfits. nutin 2 fancy, or it will look like ur tryin 2 hard. just somethin cut like an abercrombie shirt and a casual skirt. that will be cute! also, dont kare about wat other people think, as long as u r happy with ur self
it use to be me my friend jamie 'nd my friend kaleigh 'nd cera.. all 4 of us.. now we split up and kaleigh 'nd jamie are best friends and me and cera are best friends. they found someone else (who i am also friends wit) an me an cera have someone new too (amber- but we been tight wit her for a while!) But see kaleigh - jamie - dont like amber cause they aint all friends.. so i guess that could b part of the problem . but here goes the main problem to the situation. I miss kaleigh an jamie.. i dont know if i might b jealous that i was always there for them and it seems like they pushed me away for each other.. but i get sad sometimes cause they always are together granted im always wit cera and amber an they get mad (they tell me!) but i miss them i guess.. and heres the other probelm - kaeigh ad jamie have always talked shit about each other behind teach othrs back and i was always the girl to never tell and b there for both but yet they end up leavin me? wut the hell is that shit?.. god i dunno.
ok chill! itz ok. things like this happen. u just have to let it pass. if u miss kaleigh and jamie then hang out with them somethimes. if they dont like amber, then who gives a care. dont listen to other people wen it comes to choosinur friends. itz ur choise!! u can hang out with all those people and if some dont get along then just dont get them 2gether. if u dont like wen ur friendz r talkin about thinks they did wen u were not threre then just change the subject or pretend like u dont reely care. GOOD LUCK!!!! :)