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hey. i'm leigh. i don't even know if people get on this thing anymore haha but i just came back onto this thing after three years and realized how dumb i used to be. i've grown up a lot. i've been through some rough times but some good ones too. if there is anything i can do to help you let me know. any questions you have feel free to ask

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well i have this friend and we both like the same guy and i told her tht neither of us shud go out with him and shes like oh omg good idea and soo we agreed and then i find out tht they went out but only for like a day or so and yea i dont know what i should do so do you have any advice?

yeah well i know who this is so im sorry for what i did but seriously i dont remember to agreeing to that

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ok so me and my best friend and 13 and we have boyfriends that are best friends too..when we go to the movies all they do is makeout and are all over each other.. and im not jelous because me and mine do too but like he sticks his hands down her pants and grabs her boobs.. she doesnt like it, but she doesnt want him to think shes prude so she doesnt tell him to stop.. when i try to talk to her she always thinks im yelling at her.. and im not, im her friend, im just trying to help.. he tells her things like that hes gonna finger her and asks her what flavor condom she wants and stuff like that all the time, i just dont know what to do please help me.

maybe your friend should just tell her bf that shes not ready for all of that. and if he doesnt listen then she needs to break up with him. your only 13 you shouldnt be having sex already i mean i kno plenty of people that have gotten fingered and stuff and i mean i guess therye ready but your friends not

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alright so i've been going out with this guy for the whole school year and we r really close and stuff now and we dont do anything like bad, trust me im not a slut at all, and my friends are being really retarted now and keep talking behind my back abotu me being obsessed with him and saying hes my whole life, and at first when i found out i was pissed but then i just blew it off and now i dk wat to do. and i only have one good frend now tht is K.M.

if you really like him then it shouldnt matter what your friends say. theyre probably just jealous. dont worry about it. if theyre your friends they shouldnt care. your not obssessed your just in love. and dont blow it off confront them and expalin to them that you get mad when you hear they talk about you. tell them that hes your boyfriend and they shouldnt care what you 2 do together.

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hey i got asked to this school picnic at my school by this guy and i also promised my best friond i would hang out with her and i also promised my other friend id hang with her 2 can i help me have enough time to spend with all of them

ok well at a school picnic your obviously not going to be around the same people the whole time so just like go on a ride with the guy that asked you and then tell him that your going to go on a ride with your friends next he'll understand and like if you can fit 3 people in the thing then go with him and one of your other friends.

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hey !!!!!!i totally need help theres this guy who all the girls in my class just met that ive known scence last summer and they r all over him and he doesnt have anytime to spend with me anymore its like im a shadow compared the other girls......what should i do

well yu knew him first so you know more about him. so when yu and all the other girls are around and like everybody is laughing tell a funny story that happened between just you and him. all the girls will get rle jealous. then just ahng out with him more like call him after school every once in a while and be like i just rle wanted to talk to yu. he'll think its cute. do yu like wanna go out with him? if you do then flirt with him big time! chances are he likes you back.

-LEiGH

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leigh leigh leigh leigh....... your my friend. im doing this for you. so you have something to do. so you arent just sitting there. at the computer. ALL DAY. ya know wat im sayin. ya know wat im sayin sayin. sayin sayin sayin. ahhhhh you get wat i mean. you..... you advice giver you

dylan dylan dylan....im quitting because i suck at advice im not helping anybody. its horrible and nobody gets how much they helped me by letting me help them. i was finally starting to get over it and boom now things are bad again. nobody gets it nobody will ever understand.

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ok well theres this girl...... and like we used to be like best friends in fourth grade,then since we werent in the same class in 5th grade we werent really close. but now we've been hanging out sooooo much and my really close friends r always asking me why im hanging out with her and because they dont like her and stuff so im not sure what to do! you have any suggestions?

well i know a girl that has a friend and people hate it when she hangs out with her because the girl she hangs out with is a total whore. im soooooo not saying that your friend is a whore or you shouldnt hang out with her. just tell your other friends nicely that you used to be friends with her and now your friends again. they should understand if theyre your real friends. dont stop hanging out with them. hang out with all of them equally. i really dont know what to do. i mean your friends shouldnt be like getting mad at you for hanging out with that other girl. who knows they could be jealous that you have a friend.

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leighh your like one of my best friends your my hero O:-) now you know who this is. welll im still having trouble with "THEM" they keep ignoring me everyone day and i cant stand it! im serious today in school i sed there name n they go WHATTT!! and like screeamed it like im just someone they dont care at all for! n then i was like wtf! i cant standd it leigh! and it went on again today when they had a question they asked me but then they go away and i guess want me to feel that i have no friends! it seriously feels like she wants me to feel that i have no friends! and how do i figure out what you tell me back? i dont know but your the one i always go to when i need help! leigh please help if this goes on im going to blow!



-your the one that showed me your evil laugh and i almost died laughing!

-I love you

OHH YES BTWWW....i answered your other one well like they need to stop acting liek you dont ahve any friends because you so know that you have like a TON

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you know who this is!.!.!. your the one i can talk to about anything so i hope your here for me still because you are one of my best friends! well it keeps happeing at school, she ignores me asks me a question then ignores me! i really am sick of it! everyweekend she acts to do something if her "other" friend cant do something with her, and then at school they both ignore me and i hate it so much! like today i said one of their names n they yelled WHATT!! like they didn't give one shit about me and im just useless to talk to, i mean i know i dont hangout with the boys in my grade often but they really dont need to be bragging to me either about it, oh and it seems like all they want me to feel like in school is a piece of crap because they can get everyone to hangout with but i can't, and i've been going through tough times lately because one of my relatives just died!

i love you

OMG. i so know who this is and let me tell you i love you so much girl! you are an amazing perosn and they are crazy not to see that. theyre being total bitches. i really think that you should stop hanging out with them for a while because they dont deserve a girl like you as a friend. hang out with people that care about you. i love you

XOXO

ME

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ok there's this girl and she is like a slut and i hate her and she is going out with my best friend mason! and she says that the only reason she went out with him is cause i was friends with him and she just didn't want us two to be frinends...WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR LIKE 6 YEARS!and i think i like him more now.everybody thinks its wrong cause we are frinends and he's a boy and i'm a girl! i told him what she said but he didn't listen to me! what should i do???
_**west**_

first off forget about your backstabbing friend. she sounds like a big whore. :-) stop hanging out with mason for a while but write him a note explaining why.he'll realize that he's lost a great friend. and things should start to change if not....come back and update me andi'll see what else i can come up with.

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ok so i have this friend and she does everything i do she even tries to finish my sentences one time i asked her an opinion question and she said idk what would yu pick i told her my answer and she said yeah me 2 idk if it is a coincidence but i dont think it is she is a really good friend of mine and i dont want to lose her what do i do??

i sort of had te same problem. i talked to my friend. oh trust me she was so upset about it but i think she was glad i told her and things changed. she admires you but it gets on your nerves. if you tlak to her and things still dont change then dont really share ur opinions with ehr as much anymore and then things will stop to some extent

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