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Q: Hey, how are you?
Have you ever dated a guy? When you have a crush, did the guy you like, like you back?
If so, maybe you can help me.

I'm 14/F and never dated or even got told a guy likes me. Currently, I have a huge crush on this super cute boy. (He's one of those guy aren't like from a bunch of girls, I think. My friends say that he isnt ugly, but isn't hot) Is there any hints that I can know he likes me? I want him to like me...he's a year older than me and when my friend and I talk to him, he replies. He doesn't say much but only answers the question...does that mean he is shy or just doesn't want to talk?

HELP!!!!!!!!
Hehehe, I am a man, and yes guys are rather shy towards girls they like, that is unless the isnt a cocky over-confident *insert insulting word here* that will take advantage of you at any time...

My advice is to work what you girls work, flirt with him, pass him hints...etc...

but the best way to do it is just to tell him you like him...that is the best and fastest way! Yes it is hard, but muster up the strength in you!! I know you can do it if you really really try...I wish you all the luck in the world

best wishes

-JT

Q: well.. my friends and i are cool now. but then theres one problem.. the guy im going out wit' now... was 2 of my bestfriends ex's. and i asked 'em first if it was okay if i go out wit' him, and they said yeahh of course it was okay. cause my bestfriend number 1 went out him after my bestfriend number 2. and number 2 didn't have a problem wit it at all.. so i went out wit' him and then my number 2 gets mad at me saying that i didn't tell her before hand which i did. and we're in a fight right now. but then my other friend in his profile says "hate day 082706" which is mine and my boyfriends date when we went out. and thenn my ex boyfriend when i had a problem wit' before, keeps looking at me or something. so idk what to do. HELP ME PLEASE !
Ahhh...

a bit of a pickle eh dear?

Well don't worry there is a quite simple answer! Do what your heart tells you to do, and NOTHING else!

Which is more important to you dear, your friends or this man?

Friends............Man

You have to decide...and once you do know that there will be know regrets, because you are doing what your heart is telling you to do...and there is no shame or regret in that!

I wish you the best!

-JT

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WinJustin2010
Greetings users! My name is Justin Taylor and hopefully I will help some souls in need of dire assistance, I analyze alot and hopefully on this site that "skill" is a good thing, so ask me any sort of question and I will try to answer to the best of my ability!! I love to help people and hope you will find my advice comforting if not re-assuring!

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